Schools should protect the rights of transgender students

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<p>I am puzzled as to why the 2022 Model Policies statement focuses on parents' "rights" to determine how their offspring shall be gendered. If a person is transgender, they have the right to be acknowledged as such, to be protected from bullying--including the bullying of a parent. The rights of the student, to be treated with respect and to determine their own identity, are paramount. </p>


I fully oppose this.


Loudon county VA Groomers - stop them now !

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<p>Insanity most stop now </p>


I oppose this fully.


I am strongly opposed to Glenn Youngkin’s policy

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Yes, I am strongly opposed to Glenn Youngkin‘s policy


It is a grave mistake to pass this.

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It is a grave mistake to pass this.


stop this. this protects no one.

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<p>stop this. this protects no one. </p>


Strongly oppose these policies that place trans kids directly in harm's way

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I'm writing to voice my ardent opposition to Gov. Youngkin's proposed policies regarding trans students. These policies directly place trans students in harm's way, denying them both basic respect and dignity and opening them up to targeted, repeated harassment.

I share this horrifying statistic provided by the Trevor Project: "The Trevor Project’s 2022 National Survey on LGBTQ Youth Mental Health found that 45% of LGBTQ youth seriously considered attempting suicide in the past year, including more than half of transgender and nonbinary youth."

Denying students access to spaces that align with their gender identity, emboldening school officials to misgender students and disrespect their proper identifiers, and violating student privacy by alerting parents to an undisclosed LGBTQ+ identity (and thus potentially putting students' safety at risk) all increase this terrible risk.

On the other hand, taking steps such as ensuring a student's name and pronouns are respected has been proven to improve the mental health of trans youth. One study published in the Journal of Adolescent Health found the following:

"Researchers interviewed transgender youths ages 15 to 21 and asked whether young people could use their chosen name at school, home, work and with friends. Compared with peers who could not use their chosen name in any context, young people who could use their name in all four areas experienced 71 percent fewer symptoms of severe depression, a 34 percent decrease in reported thoughts of suicide and a 65 percent decrease in suicidal attempts." (quote courtesy from the University of Texas at Austin, institutional home of the authors of the quoted study, https://news.utexas.edu/2018/03/30/name-use-matters-for-transgender-youths-mental-health/)

School should be a place where students feel safe, protected, and affirmed in their identity. Do not place Virginian trans students in harm's way. Trans youth deserve the exact same dignity, respect, and privacy as their peers. Let trans students live and learn in peace.


Strongly oppose.


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<p>Generally speaking, kids in school are accepting of their classmates who are unique, whether it’s special education, English language learners, or trans peers. . It’s always the adults who have the issue. School should be a safe space for all, and fighting over whether trans kids should have certain rights shouldn’t be a fight at all. Kids are still kids and deserve to see themselves reflected in the school community, just like any other student. And the fact that trans kids are at greater risk of suicide, yet folks are still fighting about what they should be allowed in terms of rights? Why is this still an argument even? As an educator, I will protect all students within my purview, no matter what, and will always rally for the rights. </p>


Please don’t do this to our kids

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<p>School is the only safe place many students have. Don’t put us in a position to break that sense of safety and trust they so desperately need. Kids will share their sexuality and gender identity with their families as they feel comfortable. It is NOT up to schools to out students to their parents. </p>


Oppose. This policy leads directly to discrimination, harassment, and bullying.

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I oppose. The proposed change first states that students should be free from discrimination, harassment, or bullying, and then it directly pursues those exact outcomes. I am a parent of students in the Commonwealth, and I was promised that this administration will restore my voice in educational policy. Great! My voice says to stop threatening my children's well-being.


Don’t Do This!

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<p>All children need a safe space to be themselves!  Don’t do this!  I fear that doing this will force trans children to lose a safe space to live their authentic truth!  We claim we support everyone’s rights but this will take away the rights of those children!  Don’t do this.  </p>


Do Not Pass

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This new regulation by Governor Youngkin is not only a violation against basic tenants of human rights, but a violation of human decency. Transgender and nonbinary students have always existed in our school communities and will continue to exist. They deserve to be treated with dignity and to have their existence acknowledged and belong in the communities they live in. The role of public education is to promote diversity and be a space for all students to come amd learn and belong, regardless of who they are or where they are from. These regulations, while saying they are to protect students, will only further alienate and create unsafe environments for transgender and nonbinary people who already face countless threats to their existence and safety. We need more policies that are based in evidence and research and out of a desire to make schools safer and better for ALL students. These current policies are only based in fear and hatred for anyone who might be different.


I am strongly opposed.


As a parent of a trans you - I Strongly Oppose!

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As a parent of a transgender youth (8th grade) in Prince William Co. Virginia, I strongly oppose these new proposed policies to replace the existing model policies for the treatment of transgender students in Virginia's public schools.

The proposed policies seek to erase transgender and non-binary youth from the classrooms, creating a hostile and potentially dangerous school environment. The statistics already show that the rate of suicide is highest among transgender and non-binary children/youth who are not accepted and affirmed in ANY area of their life. For many students, school is the only place they can be who they were created to be.

These new policies will require teachers and school staff to forcibly "out" students to their parents against their will in some circumstances, such as when a student seeks gender related counseling; and allows teachers and school staff to refuse to provide counseling. This is horrific, and will lead to more mental health issues and suicide in the transgender and non-binary population.

These new proposed policies will also prohibit teachers and school staff from supporting transgender and non-binary students, such as using a student's affirming name and pronouns; and outright prevents the use of gender-neutral pronouns such as they/them. My own child uses they/them, and will be devastated and undergo undue mental stress and trauma if these new policies are put into place.

Finally, these new proposed policies will create bathroom and sports policies that prohibit access to and/or participation in activities consistent with their gender identity. My child, who very much looks female, will no longer be able to use the female bathroom and locker room, putting them in undo danger to physical and verbal attack.

No transgender student that I have ever met wants to use the bathroom of their identity for any other reason than safety and acceptance. The statistics and facts point to this. It is so troubling that transgender students and their mental health are being used as a political pawn by the current administration.

Know that these proposed model policies are contrary to state law and will be extremely harmful to my child, and all transgender and nonbinary kids. Please do not enact them...for some, it is a matter of life and death.

Sincerely,

Rev. Adam C. Bowling

Dumfries, VA


I strongly oppose

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<p>I oppose this policy reversal. </p>


I am completely opposed.

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I am completely opposed.


I strongly oppose this hateful policy.

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<p>This is a terrible idea that runs against the belief system of most Virginians and does more harm to a very vulnerable population. </p>


It is a grave mistake to pass this.


I oppose this fully.


Young kin and transgender students

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I am appalled at the decision Governor Youngkin has made regarding transgender students in our schools. These students already face a lot of ridicule and emotional issues. This decision will only make things worse for them.  We need to put student needs first and not ostracise them.


This will bring harm to trans kids.

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This will bring harm to trans kids.


Oppose this monstrous attack on transgender children's rights

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In a world where parents and other adults routinely crush the souls of transgender children, if not their actual bodies, requiring a trans child to have parental permission to determine their self-identity is cruel and dangerous.  All children need to know that our educational system respects them as they represent themselves, and that no one, not even their parents, has the right to say otherwise.  These changes are horrifying.


Trump was right !

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<p>Save our youth from the Loudenville Groomers </p>


I am completely opposed.


Stongly Support

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Young girls safety matters.


Do not do this.


This will bring harm to trans kids.


Dont

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<p>This will bring harm to a small minority community. Do NOT do this. </p>


It is a grave mistake to pass this.

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It is a grave mistake to pass this.


Please respect trans kids

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The new policies remind me of restrictions to other minority groups. Children just want to use the bathroom where they feel they belong. Please let them.


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I oppose this in the strongest possible manor.


Strongly oppose

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<p>I am the mom of a trans kid, and I'm a therapist with LGBTQ clients. Dysphoria is real, and yes, what is most needed is for the loved ones in their lives to fully support and affirm them, but that is not always the case. Sometimes school is the only safe place for them to be themselves. Do not walk back the protections trans kids have for school to be a safe and welcoming place for them! Do not force them to fit into boxes based on their biological sex, at the cost of their mental health! I hear story after story of pre-transition trans kids who are suicidal and depressed and anxious, and their lives transform when they are allowed to let their outsides match their insides. Please keep unequivocal protections for our trans kids. </p>


DeSantis 2024


Protect trans youth

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<p>This policy is disgusting and anyone who supports it should be voted out of office immediately </p>


Mother of Trans son and VA teacher STRONGLY OPPOSES!!!

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I STRONGLY support my trans son! He is the bravest person I know for living his authentic self. Late last week Governor Youngkin put forth a new "model policy" for VA schools. He and I read the policy and he was in tears. He said school is the safe place for so many of his peers who aren't supported at home. That's going to be taken away to give "parent's rights". The "right" to make their children feel bad for how they feel, for not supporting their children?! My son is genuinely worried about friends committing suicide if this goes through.

In the policy it says "Schools shall respect parents’ values and beliefs," What about the kids who are advocating for themselves and their needs?? What about my right as a parent to know my son is safe and respected at school??

The policy also says "Schools shall defer to parents to make the best decisions with respect to their

children-whether their child engages in any

counseling or social transition at school that encourages a gender that differs from their child’s sex." Schools are not encouraging students decisions regarding their gender. Schools are just supporting children so they feel welcome. PLEASE do not make this policy law. Lives are at stake.


I am strongly opposed.


It is a grave mistake to pass this.


Support

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It’s parents rights on the line not the school board who only follow the dictates of those who think they know best. Biological you are either male or female. There’s no in between! We are walking a precarious line that borders on rebellion to God Almighty!!!


We cannot say we're concerned about kids' mental health and pass this measure.

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I strongly oppose this measure. Trans and non-binary children deserve to express their true identities and do so without interference from schools. The most effective measure for treating mental illness for trans and non-binary people has been proven to be the affirmation of their chosen gender. If politicians claim to be concerned about mental health in schools, they cannot be in support of this draconian ruling.


Strongly Oppose

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Trans and NonBinary youth already face significant challenges and stigma when coming out, and it is irresponsible to think that a child who comes out at school is ready to come out at home. In addition, the science is clear that the best way to support Trans and non binary people is to affirm their identity, not force them to live as someone they aren't.

Richard, 22201


I support parents rights

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<p>I fully support the proposed policy which restores parents rights to guide their children’s moral values and remain fully informed of any changes that involve their children.  Thank you for not allowing a very vocal - and radical - minority to force their views upon all of us. </p>


This is a terrible policy decision.

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This is a terrible policy decision.


Stongly support

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Thank you Gov Youngkin for protecting our daughters.  Female students have felt uncomfortable in the locker rooms and using the bathrooms due to the previous policies put in place.


I fully oppose this.


Strongly Oppose

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I strongly oppose this. Outing anyone, especially youth, puts their safety at risk.


Protect our trans community

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<p>This is an absolute violation of basic human rights </p>


Trans kids need help help

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<p>The only thing hurting kids is adults perpetrating lies that trans gender is a real identity </p>


Youngkin is a trump wannabe and a lot like the dictator Desantis

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Transgender have enough of a hard time with there gender identity, maybe some of you backwoods rednecks should educate yourself about gender dysphoria and the mental problems that it causes. Maybe if you would look at your past a little then maybe you would realize that you did something that everyone did not approve of. Leave people the hell alone and mind your own damn business, and no one wants a damn dictator type governor making and telling you how to live your own life. If everyone was a mold of our idiot governor what a p.o.s world we would live in. I am going to quote a passage out of the bible which I am not the most religious person in the world. YE WHO HAVE NOT SINNED, CAST THE FIRST STONE. I dont believe many of you backwood rednecks that voted for youngkin or trump could pick up a stone, NOW COULD YOU?


I oppose this fully.


Wholeheartedly Opposed

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<p>Trans and non-binary lives matter. </p>


This is a terrible policy decision.


I strongly oppose this

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<p>I strongly oppose this  Trans kids belong here just as much as any other kid and should have the same rights and protections as other kids have. </p>


Support All Students

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As a teacher, it is my job to protect and put my students first. Not other teachers, not parents, not the governor, but the kids in my school. If that means I support them in what they're going through, with or without parent approval, then that it what I should be able to do. I refuse to contribute to teenage suicide rates, depression/anxiety rates, and self-harm because I cannot be an ally in my own job. I was once a student who struggled being in the LGBTQIA+ group and also fell into all of the rates mentioned above. I vowed to help students, not make my classroom an unsafe space. I will stand my ground against this policy.


Do not do this.


I am strongly opposed to this policy change

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This proposed policy would have a profoundly negative impact upon an already highly marginalized community of students. It is extreme in its requirements, and does an injustice to students who face unique challenges. Compassion for VA students would be to allow trans students to be addressed using the name and pronoun of their choice; it would be to allow them to use the bathrooms that align with their sense of gender identity; it would be to protect their privacy. I believe that schools should protect students, especially those most vulnerable and marginalized. To adopt policies that erode such protections is both mean-spirited and morally bankrupt. I hope that the proposed policy will be rejected in favor of ones that support, nourish, and protect trans students.


It is a grave mistake to pass this.

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It is a grave mistake to pass this.


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I oppose this in the strongest possible manor.


I oppose this


trans people deserve rights

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<p style="text-align: left;">I completely disagree with Youngkin. </p>


I am completely opposed.

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I am completely opposed.


I support this 100%

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Thank you for highlighting the importance of parents into this revised document. Parents having a say in the way their children are educated is of the upmost importance. I believe this document is fair towards all, and is taking into all students right to a good and fair education. Keeping parents in the dark about their their students was wrong and I’m happy to see that parents have rights again.
Thank you!


I am completely opposed.


Guidance Document

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As a former educator, I would have felt honored that a student shared his/her story of wanting to "come out." However, I would be devastated that the student took his life, the parents had not been informed, and the death would fall on me. Devastation upon devastation.

Parents must be allowed to be parents. It is not the educational system's job to raise the child. LGBTQ kids cannot decide on a whim whether they are one sex or another on any given day. Parent and child need to commit to a process of identification and all students need protected or there will be many Loudon County issues appearing throughout the state.


Guidance Document


The trolls will troll and try to stop the truth - save our children

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<p>Stop the trolls </p>


This will bring harm to trans kids.

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This will bring harm to trans kids.


This will bring harm to trans kids.


Strongly support a parents right to raise their child.

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School systems are not medical professionals that are in the profession of diagnosing gender dysphoria in children. School systems do not pay the medical bills of these children.


Strongly oppose.

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<p>While I recognize the intent is to protect children and their innocent minds, these policies will do more damage to them to acknowledging transgender children. Have you never seen the show “16 and pregnant”? Those children were given little to no sex education in the attempt to “protect” them and look where that got them. Ignorance is not the way to move forward, education and understanding is </p>


Strongly oppose.


Terrible idea, brought out for the worst reasons

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This is a terrible and dangerous proposal emboldening the worst prejudices in our society. It also flies in the face of the civil liberties that so many have fought and died for. Please oppose this. Support means you are endangering the lives of children.


Opposed


Do not do this.


I fully oppose this.


Stop targeting innocent children for political gain

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<p>Your number one priority should be the children's safety. Enforcing these policies will put transgender and gender-nonconforming children in unnaccepting homes at risk. This will directly raise trauma, mental illness, and even suicide for these kids. Pick another proxy for your culture wars and leave vulnerable children out of it. </p>


PROTECT TRANS YOUTH


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Vehemently oppose

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<p>Enacting these proposed policies violently perpetuates erasure, hatred, and death to trans and non-binary kids. If this is approved, you all will have blood on your hands. Do the right thing. Require and exhibit the most basic level of respect for fellow humans. </p>


I am strongly opposed.


I strongly disagree

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I strongly disagree with this proposal.


It is a grave mistake to pass this.


I oppose this in the strongest possible manor.


I oppose this

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This is harmful for trans youth and unnecessary. Do not implement this.


Governor Youngkin's Trangender Policy

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I find it ironic that Gov. Youngkin, who was elected, in part because about 1/3 of VA voters strongly felt their voices weren't being heard, is now impervious to the very real concerns that their trangender children will be, in effect, singled out and shamed, for a MEDICAL issue. The children didn't choose to be transgender, nor did their parents.

Forcing a child who identifies as a boy, to instead use the girls room will set them up as an object of scorn.  The scars endured during childhood often change the child forever.

Virginia politicians, including the Governor, need to stay OUT of family health decisions. Gov. Youngkin presented himself as a moderate Republican, THIS policy IS NOT moderate.  BTW, banning abortion is just as bad.  I hear Gov. Youngkin want to run for President in the future. Itions h'm old enough to have learned that the way he governs Virginia will be part of the backstory for a future national election. Moderate-right leaning Republicans, at least 2/3 of Independents and all Democrats WILL NOT vote for a person who humiliates their child, and forces women or girls to bear children they cannot afford to raise, or, for whatever reason,  are too mentally compromised to bear. Whatever the Governor chooses will affect the futures of children and families for years. That is a heavy burden, and I expect the Governor to take it seriously. Most of Virginia's parents are quite unlike the Northern Virginia parents who acted like hoodlums in school board members. Virginians prefer their Governors to govern in a moderate fashion, singling out transgender children and banning abortions is a far right, pardon the expression, "MAGA move".  Trust me, that is far more dangerous to children than another child, who happens to be transgender.


Support ALL students

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Stop discriminating against our students. Trans students deserve the rights and protections that every other student is afforded. Who are you to decide?


I oppose this fully.


Concerned mother

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<p>Stop the grooming of our children </p>


Assisted suicide

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<p>You’re making these children’s lives a living hell. This is a dystopia. </p>


Abhor this policy.

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Do you really hate children this much? Leave them alone. Childhood is hard enough. Being any kind of different is harder. Thousands of children commit suicide because of policies like this. Leave them alone.


It is a grave mistake to pass this.

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It is a grave mistake to pass this.


Treatment of Transgender Students

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WWJD? Treat everyone with kindness and compassion-not ostracize whole groups of living breathing humans like this policy.


SUPPORT

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<p>I support this amendment being passed. Parents should absolutely have the right to be involved and make decisions for their children. It is irresponsible to allow children to make decisions that could be devastating to their future. As children, their minds are not fully developed and allowing them and encouraging them to make decisions based on their God give  gender is causing much harm and increasing the mental illness in this state and country. It is confusing to all students. Please be part of the solution in stopping this harmful behavior in our schools. </p>


Parents have the right to know!

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Parents have the right to know!


I strongly oppose

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This is going to be really harmful to trans* children.


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I oppose this in the strongest possible manor.


I oppose this.

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This is detrimental to the safety of trans and non-binary children. I oppose this discriminatory legislation.


I am completely opposed.

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I am completely opposed.


Transgender support

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<p>I totally oppose the changes being made in regulars to transgender students. ALL students deserve equal right and equal education no matter their gender. </p>


I am strongly opposed.


Agree!!

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<p>Strongly Agree! </p>


Stop the insanity

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<p>Get this crap out of our schools </p>


We need to support kids

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It is a simple matter to support all kids, including transgender kids. If a teacher can refer to Johnathan as Jack,  that teacher can also refer to Steven as Freya. It is a simple, easy transition to use "they/them" for kids that want that. All kids are vulnerable and need to be supported. It is our jobs as parents, educators and politicians to help all kids. This proposed change in policy will do more harm than good. Stop putting your ego above your constituents' needs.


Horrible policy that will put students’ lives at risk

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<p>This is a truly horrible policy that will endanger the lives and safety of all LGBTQ youth. Schools are NOT indoctrinating students by accepting who they are and what gender and sexuality they possess. This policy is bigoted, hateful, and backwards. </p>


I am completely opposed.


treatment of transgender students in schools

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<p>Support - Schools should focus on teaching basic skills.  The teaching of values is not the school system's responsibility but the parents.  Issues regarding sex, gender, and other non-educational subjects MUST include the parents/families. School personnel should not take advantage of students who are vulnerable as they develop. </p>


It is a grave mistake to pass this.


Oppose in the strongest of terms

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It is the height of hypocrisy that this proposed policy change claims to “recognize that each child is a unique individual” and then systematically erase the meager protections that transgender and non-binary students currently have.   Every person has the right to be true to themselves and to live free from bullying and government interference in their decisions.  Why are you trying to protect the parents instead of the children?  I suspect it is because children can’t cast a vote.

For some students, school is their safe place when home is not a supportive environment.   Seeking to take that away and subject any teacher or administrator to out a student to their parents or anyone one else is abhorrent.   There are still parents who would have their children subjected to psychological abuse in an attempt to change something that is fundamental about themselves.   These policies will keep children from feeling safe enough to be their authentic selves.

The suicide rate and incidence of self-harming are much higher among the LGBTQ+ community because of policies like this.  Policies that tell them there is something wrong with how they are feeling.  That they have to conform to archaic societal norms in order to protect others feelings.   What about their feelings?  This policy is not about parental rights or student rights or even teacher’s rights.  This is a solely transphobic reaction to the hurtful and dangerous narrative of those who cannot fathom that anyone be different from them and still be normal.

I oppose this proposed change in the strongest of terms.


This will bring harm to trans kids.

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This will bring harm to trans kids.


Model Policies

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<p>I absolutely OPPOSE this. This is detrimental to the health and safety of the children and their families. </p>


Do not do this.


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Protect trans & nonbinary students in Virginia. It is not for teachers or school administrators to decide who a student is.


I oppose this in the strongest possible manor.


Trans Kids matter. Trans lives matter.

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Trans kids matter. Trans lives matter. You are heard. You are seen. You are loved. The government should not be making policies that put the safety of these children at risk. School needs to be a place kids feel safe - not one that ostracizes them. My taxes go to teaching kids it is ok to be exactly who they are. This is an abhorrent use of power.


I agree with Youngkin


Oppose this model guidance

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<p>We oppose this model policy in its current form.  We are especially concerned about Section III (A) (3), which requires a school counselor to contact parents before discussing anything pertaining to a student's gender identity with the student.   An automatic mandatory disclosure should not take the place of the counselor's judgement.   School counselors are trained and licensed, and we believe that we can trust them to be safe adults with whom students can discuss sensitive matters.  </p>


Strongly oppose.


Transgender students


I am strongly opposed.


Oppose


Thank you for standing up to children

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<p>Strongly support </p>


I oppose this fully.


I oppse

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As a parent in Virginia, I vehemently oppose Governor Youngkin's Draconian proposed policy that will discriminate again students. I want transgender student to be called by their chosen name, use the bathroom that matches their gender identity, and play on the sports team that corresponds to their gender identity. To forcibly out students and make subject them to these proposed policies will jeopardize their physical wellbeing and mental health.  Do not let these policies go into effect!


Oppose Model Policies

?As a school counselor, mother, and citizen of our community,  I  am writing to voice my strong opposition to the 2022 Model Policies on the Privacy, Dignity, and Respect for All Students and Parents in Virginia's Public Schools. In order for students to achieve their academic goals, they need to feel safe, supported, and valued in their school environment. These model policies are in opposition to respecting the dignity of all students. By not allowing educators to use students' chosen name and/or sharing a students' identity with a non-supportive parent, we are endangering  and demoralizing students who are already marginalized.According to the National Alliance on Mental Illness, transgender youth are 12 times more likely to attempt suicide than the general population. Ideally students who are transgender or non-binary would feel safe sharing with their parents, and their parents would support them as individuals. However, that is not always the case. For those students whose parents do not support them, taking away school as a safe place where they are seen and valued for the wonderful people they are, is beyond sad. It is dangerous and disrespectful.As reported by the Journal of Adolescent Health, compared with youth who could not use their chosen name at school, home, work, and with friends, youth who could use their chosen name "experienced 71 percent fewer symptoms of severe depression, a 34 percent decrease in reported thoughts of suicide and a 65 percent decrease in suicidal attempts."Please allow educators to continue supporting and providing a safe space for all students by removing the 2022 Model Policies.

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?As a school counselor, mother, and citizen of our community,  I  am writing to voice my strong opposition to the 2022 Model Policies on the Privacy, Dignity, and Respect for All Students and Parents in Virginia's Public Schools. In order for students to achieve their academic goals, they need to feel safe, supported, and valued in their school environment. These model policies are in opposition to respecting the dignity of all students. By not allowing educators to use students' chosen name and/or sharing a students' identity with a non-supportive parent, we are endangering  and demoralizing students who are already marginalized.

According to the National Alliance on Mental Illness, transgender youth are 12 times more likely to attempt suicide than the general population. Ideally students who are transgender or non-binary would feel safe sharing with their parents, and their parents would support them as individuals. However, that is not always the case. For those students whose parents do not support them, taking away school as a safe place where they are seen and valued for the wonderful people they are, is beyond sad. It is dangerous and disrespectful.

As reported by the Journal of Adolescent Health, compared with youth who could not use their chosen name at school, home, work, and with friends, youth who could use their chosen name "experienced 71 percent fewer symptoms of severe depression, a 34 percent decrease in reported thoughts of suicide and a 65 percent decrease in suicidal attempts."

Please allow educators to continue supporting and providing a safe space for all students by removing the 2022 Model Policies.


Oppose This Un-American Proposal

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Any patriot would see this proposal as an affront to American values. Legislating the required discrimination of any group of citizens (which will lead to harm for many) denigrates our ideals of freedom and liberty. We were never built to be a country that denies the basic rights of individuals purely for the comfort of others. Americans have the right to be discomforted by those with differences but they do not have the right to discriminate based on those discomforts.  Trans students are no less valuable than any other citizens, and codifying specific legislation that willfully harms them and puts them at risk under the guise of someone else’s religious liberty is a violation of the First Amendment as it establishes state religious ideals and contradicts our American principle of liberty and Justice for all. It is our patriotic duty to protect liberty for all, even those with whom we disagree. Please do not lose faith in America or Virginia by turning on its values - our children are watching.


Opposed

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<p>I absolutely oppose this proposed policy. </p>


I strongly oppose this proposal!

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School  is supposed to be a place where a child can receive an education while feeling safe and secure in their environment. This proposal spares no thought for the mental health and well-being of trans kids. Rather, it puts these kids at risk for being singled out and possibly bullied. The pandemic put plenty of strain on the mental health of all young people. Why is more stress and strain now proposed to be heaped on trans kids? Have a heart Virginia and and take care of all kids by treating them with respect and dignity.


This is harmful and hateful

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<p>This policy will force children who have not come out to their parents for various reasons to put themselves before they are ready, causing irreparable harm.  Trans children deserve respect and love.  </p>


Strongly support

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<p>Stop the exploitation of our children </p>


Strongly support


Strongly support a parents right to raise their child to adulthood.


This is a terrible policy decision.

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This is a terrible policy decision.


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I strongly support this - this is common sense


New Model Policy: Negatively Impacting Trans Students

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This new model policy targeting our trans, non-binary, and gender non-conforming students is discriminatory. It is going to negatively impact trans and gender expansive students inside and outside school. Educators need to protect and serve students of all genders. School should be a safe space for where students can feel comfortable being their true selves. Public schools are a public good and we have the legal obligation to provide safety and inclusion for all. This policy must be reversed.


This is a terrible policy decision.


I Strongly Oppose the Directive to Limit Rights of Transgender Students

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<p>The proposed model policies endanger the safety and mental health of students who identify as transgender. These young people are an already vulnerable population who face many challenges, including increased discrimination and bullying, higher suicide rates, and who are at a greater risk of mental illness. Promoting these model policies  would be a step backwards for human rights in Virginia, would  cost the Commonwealth dearly in forthcoming legal battles, and would pose no overall net benefit to the health and well-being of anyone in Virginia. </p>


I am completely opposed.

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I am completely opposed.


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<p>Please, please, please do not do this. It will not help and will probably traumatize the children </p>


This will bring harm to trans kids.

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This will bring harm to trans kids.


Strongly oppose.


Support this policy- It is in the best interest of all children including trans children.

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This is about parental rights. Parents bear the responsibility of raising The child to adulthood. School administration should not be making medical diagnosis of children experiencing gender dysphoria. They are not medical professionals.


It is a grave mistake to pass this.

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It is a grave mistake to pass this.


despicable

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<p>This is absolutely despicable and will harm trans kids. You are the Governor of all of Virginia, not the parts that you like. </p>


Strongly oppose—this will literally cost lives

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<p>I can’t believe this was even brought up in the state of Virginia. This proposal is dangerous, harmful, and quite deadly. Check the research and learn some facts—you will quite literally be responsible for the blood of our Virginia children if this passes. We are better than this. Our state is better than this. We demand better than this. </p>


I am strongly opposed.


I know you don’t care, Mr Governor, but you know this is wrong.

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You and your base know this is cruel. You and your base know what you’re doing to trans Virginians. You know the pain it will cause. You know the suffering it’s forcing on them. You know that it will harm people you know.

You just do not care.

You do not care because they’re not straight white men like you, Mr Governor. You don’t care because you can avert your eyes and shut your ears because it doesn’t affect you. You don’t care because they don’t agree with you.

i don’t know if you are transphobic in your heart. I don’t know if your voters hate trans people.

But I KNOW that if trans people are brutalized or even killed, you will not care, not really. You would feel better living in a world where they do not exist. They’re not people, they’re an inconvenience to you.

There are those who think you will not care about the messages here telling you not to enact these policies. There are those who think you’re going to enjoy making trans people subject to hostility in our state. If you’re any moral man at all, you will prove them wrong, change course, and apologize for the damage you’ve done already.

If you’re anybody with empathy and kindness that is basic to any human, you will not do this to the Trans People of Virginia.

Otherwise, you are so callous and set on cruelty for cruelty’s sake, you would make the Devil himself blush for shame.


I strongly oppose this cruel policy.

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I strongly oppose this cruel policy.


I fully oppose this.


I strongly oppose this policy

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Strongly oppose this policy


I am completely opposed.


I strongly oppose. This is a crime against our children.

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This policy goes against research and common sense and will harm trans children and our entire community. I fear what’s happening to our schools- they are becoming a place of hate. Strongly opposed.


You're missing.the point of the policies!

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<p>Have you all lost your minds.???  Go in a school and be there for a week or two. Especially middle school. These kids are trying to fit in!  Be someone the are not.  We as teachers and counselors can't let parents know about their child's choices unless the child allows it.  Really???  Let a child born a boy go into a girl's bathroom.  That opens up possibilities for rape.  Really??  Parents are the parents.   If they follow whatever policy that they have to when a child does make the choice to be transgender then that's what really needs to be done.  Parents need to be totally involved and work with their child with whatever choices they make.  I'm not saying a child cannot be a transgender but parents have to be involved.  You have no idea what it is to watch a child make this sort of choice trying to fit in not because that is who they are and turn around and commit suicide. Experience that and you might change your mind.  As a teacher you see it unfold and it is devastating.   The point of the policies is to involve parents and.have them be a part of the decision making process.  It is not aimed at the transgender child.  What is wrong with you all that think it is ok far an 11 year old to make this decision and parents have no idea.  Then again I think some parents would be SHOCKED  at the behavior of their children in school so why not have them be shocked when their child makes transgender choices without  parents ever knowing. It is sad these kids have to go through this.  They need the parents involvement!  That is what these policies are about.  Maybe read them again.  </p>


I oppose the 2022 Model Policy on the Privacy, Dignity, and Respect for all Students

The proposed policy is inconsistent with the National PTA Resolution on the Recognition of LGBTQ Individuals as a Protected Class, and the resources for supporting LGBTQ students and their families that are provided by the National PTA:
“The lack of awareness and understanding of issues facing Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Queer/Questioning children and youth has contributed to a higher rate of isolation, depression, and suicidal ideations or attempts; andEducation regarding LGBTQ issues increases understanding and cultivates acceptance of and respect for LGBTQ children and youth; andHarassment and bullying policies that specifically mention sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression are associated with: students feeling more safe; lower levels of bullying; decreased incidents of harassment related to sexual orientation; increased teacher/staff intervention; and a greater reporting of incidents.”
As such, this parent and PTA leader opposes the 2022 Model Policy on the Privacy, Dignity, and Respect for all Students and Parents in Virginia’s Public Schools.

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The proposed policy is inconsistent with the National PTA Resolution on the Recognition of LGBTQ Individuals as a Protected Class, and the resources for supporting LGBTQ students and their families that are provided by the National PTA:

“The lack of awareness and understanding of issues facing Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Queer/Questioning children and youth has contributed to a higher rate of isolation, depression, and suicidal ideations or attempts; and
Education regarding LGBTQ issues increases understanding and cultivates acceptance of and respect for LGBTQ children and youth; and
Harassment and bullying policies that specifically mention sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression are associated with: students feeling more safe; lower levels of bullying; decreased incidents of harassment related to sexual orientation; increased teacher/staff intervention; and a greater reporting of incidents.”

As such, this parent and PTA leader opposes the 2022 Model Policy on the Privacy, Dignity, and Respect for all Students and Parents in Virginia’s Public Schools.


Strongly Oppose

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This is dangerous, completely unnecessary, and will bring harm to many children/young adults.


I oppose this fully.


It is a grave mistake to pass this.


I fully oppose this!


Transphobia

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This is full backward motion and will harm all members of the transgender community.
The youth of today are teaching us to be inclusive and supportive of all people. Your administration should be embarrassed by these policies which resemble the thoughts of the mid 1900’s. You clearly are not prolIfe of transkids because this line of thinking leads to death by suicide.


Do not do this.


I SUPPORT TRANS PEOPLE!!

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<p>This law is disgusting and shouldn’t have even created!!! I SUPPORT TRANS PEOPLE AND WHO THEY WANT TO BE!!! </p>


Strongly oppose

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As a psychologist specializing in the treatment of non-binary and trans youth I strongly oppose reversing the evidence based best practices that are in place in Virginia schools. I guarantee you that reversing these policies will cause harm for these kids. Please reconsider and keep these life saving practices in place.
thank you,

Anne Edwards


This will bring harm to trans kids.


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Support trans kids unless you like youth suicide


I am strongly opposed.


Strongly oppose!

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I strongly oppose this proposed policy.  This proposal would create a hostile and potentially dangerous school environment for our VA transgender and nonbinary youth, requiring teachers and staff to forcibly “out” students, prohibit staff from supporting trans and nonbinary students such as using a students’ affirming name and pronouns, and prohibit access or participation in activities consistent with their gender identity.  All our students deserve a supportive and affirming school environment, especially our vulnerable and marginalized populations like our transgender and nonbinary youth.


This policy change is overly regressive and will lead to the death of innocent children.

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This change is absolutely absurd and will lead to nothing but the mental and physical harm of innocent students who are trying to express themselves. In what other way are parents allowed to have this kind of authoritarian control over their children while at school? If a student reports parental abuse to a counselor, does the school feel inclined to go and inform said possibly abusive parent? Would you tell the parent of a beaten child that their child told on them to a counselor? I would sincerely like to hope you would NOT. At the very least, policy does not dictate you SHOULD, because the home is not always a safe place! Parents are not a child's slave master.

If there was some kind of issue or epidemic where schools were pressuring children, giving them no choice but to be transgender, as schools used to do with requiring children to stand and swear their devotion to the flag of the United States, as well as God, this policy would make marginally more sense. But it is safe to say that by all accounts, that is not happening.

IF THE LIVES AND HEALTH OF CHILDREN ARE ACTUALLY VALUED, THIS WILL NOT PASS!!!!


This will bring harm to trans kids.

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This will bring harm to trans kids.


This is harmful to trans students

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As a proud Virginian, I strongly oppose these proposed changes. They would bring harm to transgender children. Any policy that aims to respect or protect students must do so for transgender students as well.

I sincerely hope we do not take a step back.


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<p>I oppose this legislation. Our world needs to become more accepting of all humans and human rights. This policy is an enormous step backwards, and does not represent the opinion of the majority.  Every student deserves the right to receive an education and have their rights to equality protected, and to be who they are. This legislation paves the way for bullying and unfair treatment. Young people today are over the prejudice and hate of close minded generations of the past. We need to take the lead from our younger generations to create a world that is not scared of  differences which  lead to hate. In my personal experience, students are not the ones with issues of acceptance.  Our youth are largely tolerant and open to change. The times have changed, and it's time our policy leaders change with them.  Governor Younkin, you did not win in a landslide, your opinion does not represent the majority of Virginians, and you must be open to both sides and be a compassionate human being. </p>


This is a terrible policy decision.

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This is a terrible policy decision.


Why go back to the dark ages?

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The 2021 Model Policies are well thought out and educational with the intention of protecting transgender youth. The 2022 Model policies are generic boilerplate muddle of cliches than want to appear all-inclusive but instead perpetuate the straight cis-gender majority narrative. You are literally saying  now that it is ok to discriminate against transgender youth. Really, Virginia? You can do SO MUCH BETTER.


Model Policies for the Treatment of Transgender Students in Virginia’s Public Schools

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<p>I fully oppose this discriminatory bill </p>


I vehemently oppose this

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<p>I strongly oppose </p>


Support

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Though we need to find a solution for Trans Rights, the removal of the rights of biological boys and girls should not be committed as is now the case.

The idea, or the promotion of, not informing parent's of life altering decisions is highly neglectful, harmful, and a misuse of an official's capacity.  Taking away the Right's and responsibilities of parent's and allowing only the State, a teacher, or administrator to help a student decide on something so important and life changing is ludicrous.


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I oppose this in the strongest possible manor.


I fully oppose this.


Do not do this.


Thank you, as a parent

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I am so grateful for this legislation and I can't believe how it's being misconstrued by the media. As a parent and teacher who left the classroom last year, I am SO happy to see that parents are valued. Parents know their children far better than any educator ever will and parents should be the ones to help their child through their formative years. My support of this bill does NOT mean I wouldn't support my child if they experienced same sex attraction or gender issues. What it DOES mean is that I am kept informed so I can be a loving support for them. Helping the kids keep secrets from their parents results in a dysfunctional home life where the kids fear their parents and no one should facilitate that. Part of the reason I left teaching at FCPS was because I was told last year that I can to keep my students' trans wishes all to myself. I had NO intention of ever "outing" my students to their parents, but it absolutely wasn't right to ask me or any other teacher to keep track of everyone's genders and new names a secret out of fear of slipping up when talking to parents.  That is a toxic environment for all involved. The consequences for an honest mistake were terrifying. I completely agree with this legislation. Parents MUST be kept in the loop to ensure success, an open conversation, and that love continues in the home.


Protect trans kids ??????

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<p>I am strongly opposed to these changes. </p>


Strongly oppose this bigoted policy change

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<p>The newly proposed guidance is nothing more than transphobic bigotry that will directly harm children. I vehemently oppose these changes. </p>


I oppose this fully.


Thank you yay Youngkin!

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Thank you Governor Youngkin! You're my hero! We don't hate students, we're just tired of the harmful bathroom confusion and pronoun confusion.


Objection to Youngkin’s proposed policies for transgender students

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<p>Youngkin and his discriminatory proposals are sickening, absurd and not reality based.  Why doesn’t he focus his energy on real issues in schools, like the horrific bullying that goes on and mental health issues faced by children?  How can one be so evil that he would attempt to take away the rights of children? Especially when their pronouns have zero to do with anyone else?  </p>


Strongly oppose.


Oppose

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<p>As a parent of a non binary student, this measure is extremely harmful to them. Why do you want to something that is harmful to our children. Why do you hate them so much? Why is ot tjat conservative Christians force their hatred on our community. </p>


This is a terrible policy decision.


This is bad idea.

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This is a bad idea. Don't do it.


I strongly oppose this

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I do not support the changes the Governor is making in how transgender students are treated. Love, compassion and understanding are needed. Stop trying to score political points by being cruel to the most marginalized kids in our schools.


This will bring harm to trans kids.

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This will bring harm to trans kids.


These anti-trans policies are inhumane, reckless, t endanger trans people & are hence unconscionable

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These anti-trans policies are inhumane, they recklessly endanger trans people especially trans youth,& are hence unconscionable.


Youngkin's desire for national recognition does not justify putting our children at risk

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I do not support this guidance. It's a transparent effort to raise Youngkin's profile and score political points in a manufactured culture war, and it comes at the expense of the privacy and dignity of our children.

Youngkin, should be ashamed for exploiting vulnerable children for his own gains, as should anyone who supports this guidance.


It’s not that serious ??

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<p>What is the BIG DEAL if our kids decide to cultivate pronouns ?  I mean really parents? Is that difficult to educate your kids to be considerate and respectful? Sign it and move on already. </p>


Oppose these changes

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<p>I am adamantly against these changes. These would put the lives of our transgender students in serious danger. Please lead from a place of respect instead of fear. Let's take care of our students and give them a good education where they feel safe and respected. Please do not put these changes into effect. I oppose these changes and I stand with our transgender students- with all of our students. </p>


(Model Policies for the Treatment of Transgender Students in Virginia’s Public Schools)

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I completely support this.  Thank you for caring!


Do not do this.


Fully opposed to this

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This guidance would put the lives of children who are often already living in fear in danger. This guidance is not from a place of “protecting kids” but from a place of hate and bigotry towards kids who don’t fit into a gender binary. It’s not lost on me that so many of the comments of those in favor are anonymous or under fake names. They know they are in wrong. If this governor and his party really wanted to help kids, they would understand the reality of those who are LGBTQIA and the harassment and bigotry they often face, sometimes even at the hands of their family. And they wouldn’t be pushing to remove protections. I am absolutely disgusted by this proposed guidance and hope this is not allowed to pass


This is a terrible policy decision.

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This is a terrible policy decision.


Strongly opposed

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I am a parent of an elementary school child in public schools and I absolutely oppose these policies. My family and I have friends and family members who are members of the LGBTQ community. We have seen first hand how the use of preferred names and pronouns impacts a person’s life and mental health.
The Youngkin administration claims to support parents. However these policies do not represent me and my values as a parent.
Many people have different preferred names than their legal name (my brother and husband are the first that come to mind!) but never in their entire school career (or in employment) have they ever been questioned about whether or not their teacher of students were allowed to use their preferred name. They are both cis-gender, heterosexual men. This sets up every school district for lawsuits for violating the rights of students based on their gender and sexual identity. The first time an “Elizabeth” is called Beth without parent permission but another student is denied to use “they” pronouns, you have violated that students rights.
These policies are illegal and ethically wrong.
I strongly oppose.


I am completely opposed.

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I am completely opposed.


I oppose this fully.


It is a grave mistake to pass this.

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It is a grave mistake to pass this.


strongly oppose

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<p>This proposal does not help anyone, and puts thousands of kids at risk.  The repercussions if this is passed are unfathomable. </p>


Strongly oppose

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<p>This is unnecessarily targeting trans and non-binary children, who are already at risk of bullying, abuse, suicide and more. This is the opposite of giving local communities agency and encouraging engagement in the public education system. </p>


Strongly Opposed To These Policies

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The Guidance Document for 2022 states that the goal of these policies is to ensure "All students have the right to attend school in an environment free from discrimination, harassment, or bullying."  These policies directly contradict this stated goal by specifically targeting a marginalized group, already subject to these conditions in and out of school and seek to further isolate them from support.

Principle A in this document discusses the rights of parents in the upbringing and education of their children. Schools are not in violation of the parents' ability to make decisions in their upbringing. As stated by Gov. Youngkin to support this thesis "a parent should absolutely be the primary counselor adviser and help her in wrestling with this decision" However this ignores the agency of the children as full human beings. The responsibility of communication is not something that can be legislated, and is instead a built trust. Regardless of whether a child is acting "rebellious" or "difficult", a parent is the responsible party for ensuring communication and trust is maintained. Requiring such things through rules does not encourage communication, it instead encourages isolation as it further disallows the student to express themselves in a true and authentic way consistent with their identity in wider swathes of their life.

This Principle also includes allusions to the hypothesis that "Parents are in the best position to work with their children". On a surface level this may seem a factual statement, but it ignores cases in which children are not in the care of their parents due to specifically the parents not being able to work with their children responsibly or reasonably. The student may be erroneous in believing their parent is not the right person, but under current policy would still be receiving help and support for the issue from qualified and responsible adults hired by the state to educate or run school operations. To deprive them of that outlet when they are already afraid of how their parents might react will further isolate them from support and help should they need it.

Principle B expands on the statements of Principle A by requiring schools to include parents in processes of helping the student in times of need related to mental health. Again, on surface-level this seems a reasonable thing, but ignores the child as a full person capable of deciding they don't trust their parents for some reason. If a child expresses fear of their parents retaliating or changing behavior due to nothing but their own identity, that fear should be treated as real and respected. A dependent is uniquely vulnerable to abuse by their caregiver, emotional and physical. To require a student who does not trust their parents expose a vulnerable aspect of their identity will open them to abuse if their fear is justified. If their fears or worries about their parents are unfounded, under current 2021 policies, they would most importantly be able to receive the help they need anyway, and may realize their fear is unfounded. That they be helped to navigate their identity or emotions is more important than the parent being told of these struggles.

Principle C contends that Parents are the primary educator of their children. I disagree. The average person is not qualified to teach. Teaching is a profession because it is uniquely challenging to build rapports, explain challenging concepts in a digestible way, recognize the unique ways in which explanations need to change on an individual basis, and keep an environment of safety, both emotionally and intellectually. A parent is not always the primary figure in a student or child's life. There are instances where children see their teachers and coaches more frequently than their own parents. To deprive students of an outlet they may trust in order to placate absent or untrusted parents serves only to harm the student or child. It also ignores the child's choice to not involve their parents.

Principle D blatantly ignores the past three Principles restriction of students' ability to attend a school free from harassment or discrimination by making rules that discriminate against them for the uniquely challenging and intensely vulnerable aspects of their identity as a person. A school is often a place of respite away from home, where students are more freely able to express and learn to interact with their peers. To turn a place of respite and freedom into a surveillance apparatus for the parents they do not trust to discuss intense personal matters with, undermines the purpose of education in public schools. The students are no longer allowed to learn to navigate the world as who they are. This lack of critical learning will cause problems short and long term for not just the students, but teachers, parents, and the state.


Do not pass this

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This bill is a violation of the freedom of individuals to express themselves how they wish. In America, we pride ourselves on freedom of speech and expression. How one wishes to identify and express themselves is tied into these fundamental rights. Governor Youngkin's attack on freedom stands as a blatant violation of the freedoms that Americans have fought so hard to protect.


I am completely opposed.


Wasting Valuable Instruction Time

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I beg you to consider the limited amount of time and energy teachers and school staff have, if you won’t consider the mental well-being of the students who will be hurt by this policy. It’s unnecessary and distracting. Middle and high school teachers often have more than 100 students a semester; asking them to report every instance of a student using a different name is preposterous. If a parent has a problem with their child using a nickname or different pronouns, that is up to the parent to solve. A student preferring to use a different name or pronouns is not a health or safety issue and it isn’t really a teacher’s business or job to question a student on these topics. Let teachers focus on educating students and handling actual student endangerment instead of making them fear for their jobs due to these unnecessary, pedantic restrictions.


Oppose this flagrant attempt to harm children!

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The previous guidelines were working! Why would you make these changes that are designed to put some of the most vulnerable students at risk. Let people use the bathroom when it’s needed. Stop putting barriers  in the way for kids to find themselves!


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I oppose this in the strongest possible manor.


This is a terrible policy decision.


I oppose this bill.

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<p>Lets not take away the rights of other americans. Especially our childrenWe must help protect trans children. </p>


Treat all kids the same. I oppose Youngkin’s policy.

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<p>Why can we not protect our trans kids? They are kids. They deserve the same respect and privacy all kids get. </p>


STRONGLY OPPOSE

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This is a terrible, poorly thought out proposal that is based on fear and cowardice rather than any common knowledge or sense of dignity. Governor Youngkin should be ashamed (even though I know he will not be). Hopefully we the people of Virginia can show him how wrong he is.


Strongly oppose.


In the right direction...

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In regard to the 2022 Model Policies for schools, the proposed document appears to put children first by putting parents at the helm. I support the acknowledgment of existing law and codes to craft a model policy that allows parents to make informed decisions about their children's care while at school.


I strongly oppose this!

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<p>If you care about children, you have to care about ALL children. This policy will endanger students who are already struggling with their identity. Passing legislation that allows for LGBTQ children to be publicly shamed and bullied is an absolute disgrace and teaches children that being openly hateful to people who are different is acceptable and permitted. How dare you think this is okay. No one in education is “indoctrinating” children to be gay or transgender. This has always been part of society, we were just too hateful to allow these individuals to feel okay about their identities. This generation is not the same as past generations. They will not stand for such open hate in their lives. If you want to be involved in your children’s lives and know what they are going through, don’t be a closed-minded and hateful person and then your children won’t feel like they can’t come to you when they need to talk about important things in their lives. Do not pass this hateful, bigoted policy. </p>


I fully support this.


Do not do this.


Strongly support this policy & parental rights to raise their child.

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<p>Strongly support a parents right to raise their child to adulthood. </p>


Parents are their children's guardian

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Not the School nor the Government should be hiding or determining what is best for the child. They must get permission first. Glad people are seeing how much control gov't wants.


This is a terrible policy decision.

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This is a terrible policy decision.


Strongly Opposed

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<p>OPPOSED to Anti-Trans Policy targeting VA youth.  Why are republicans so frightened and triggered by anything they don't understand?  Who hurt you?  What makes you so determined to hurt others?  PEOPLE WILL DIE if you do this!  </p>


I am strongly opposed.


It is a grave mistake to pass this.

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It is a grave mistake to pass this.


This policy is a disgrace and will hollow out the state

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Virginia has some of the best schools in the nation. Changing school policy in this way will make our schools hostile to children who are already navigating a challenging period of their lives. Families of trans students will leave the Commonwealth for more LGBTQ+ friendly states with high quality schools. More LGBTQ+ students will die by suicide than happens already. I am pleased that several school districts are already committed to continuing their inclusive, student-centered policies that welcome trans students along with students of all identities. Along with those school disctricts I will fight this hateful policy, if it is implemented.


Healthcare Workers Support Trans Youth

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I am a third-year medical student and care provider for transgender and gender diverse youth. This proposed policy would cause harm to transgender students by forcing them to be misnamed and misgendered at school, leading to depression, anxiety, and suicidal ideation. Schools are meant to be a safe place for children, and forcing trans kids to be outed to parents will cause these children injury. In the interest of safety for transgender youth, I and hundreds of other healthcare workers throughout Virginia strongly oppose this policy.


It is a grave mistake to pass this.


fully support this policy to align with the virginia constitution

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<p>parents need to be the primary caregivers and educators of their children. the government is not equipped morally or intellectually to make these choices. </p>


I fully oppose this.


I strongly oppose this

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This is dangerous and completely unnecessary. You’re playing politics with the lives of our kids.


Support parents and the Governor’s policy.

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<p>I support families and parent’s rights.  Children who are not trans should not have to share a bathroom with a biological person of the opposite sex.  Girls should not have to compete against a biological boy in sports.  I support all females and their right to fair sports play and competition.  All persons should be treated with respect, but taking away the rights of others to support a transgender person is not the way to achieve fairness.  </p>


This will bring harm to trans kids.

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This will bring harm to trans kids.


I oppose Youngkin's move re Trans kids

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<p>Trans kids should be able to use bathrooms of their chosen sex and to be able to be called by their chosen names. Youngkin pretends he's a moderate but he's a rights denying supporter of a MAGA agenda with policies that are not good for our schools. </p>


Strongly Oppose

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<p>These policies are dangerous and discriminatory towards transgender youth. Do not do this. I strongly oppose. </p>


I oppose this completely

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<p>This hateful policy does nothing but harm students who just want to be who they are and live their lives. It does not do anything else of any use or consequence. </p>


Support

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Parents have a right to know about any issue their child is dealing with.  Thank you Governor Younkin!


I oppose this policy

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<p>This policy is harmful. It is based on fear and bigotry. </p>


Strongly oppose.


TRANS RIGHTS ARE HUMAN RIGHTS

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<p>Trans people are already risking their lives every day just for existing, and Glenn Youngkin wants to put kids in danger by notifying their parents, restricting access to (already hard to come by!) gender-affirming care? What is the purpose of a policy that oppresses an entire community? Why do you see transgender people as a threat to society? Why is gender an issue to be intervened with by the government? What if these trans kids live in abusive households? What if their parents are Christian and think their very existence is a sin? Are you, Glenn Youngkin, prepared to have a massive outpouring of transgender homeless youth? Oh right, you barely even care about houseless people to begin with. This policy is absolutely disgusting. Virginia Governer Glenn Youngkin is an evil, transphobic bigot, and is putting thousands of lives in danger. </p>


Support

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<p>The rights of a few shouldnt overpower the majority and we live in a world where this appears to be happening daily. Schools shouldn’t be a political venue rather a safe place to be educated. Treat everyone the same. </p>


I strongly oppose this !!!

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I completely oppose this and why are human rights aren’t valued


This is a terrible policy decision.

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This is a terrible policy decision.


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I oppose this in the strongest possible manor.


Transgender students' rights are clearly violated by this new policy

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It starts with the following misstatement:

'The phrase “transgender student” shall mean a public school student whose parent has requested in writing, due to their child’s persistent and sincere belief that his or her gender differs with his or her sex, that their child be so identified while at school.'

A student is transgender if said student determines themselves to be transgender; parental acquiescence has NOTHING to do with it. Students deserve to be treated with respect and this document treats students as chattel. It is the student's persistent and sincere belief that must be honored; NOT that student's parents. Requiring the student to get their parent to make a request in writing in order to call that student by their chosen name is absurd.

This document is disgusting and a reflection of the Governor and the Virginia Superintendent of Education's desire to impose their own personal views on public education. I have never been so fearful that our Commonwealth will return to the prejudice of massive resistance as I am now. Glenn Youngkin should be ashamed of himself, turning Virginia students into political pawns.


Oppose - This will exacerbate the teacher shortage

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It is not possible to erase trans and non-binary children from our schools. They have always been a part of our school communities and always will be. They bring with them important experiences and perspectives that should be valued, just as we should value all forms of diversity in VA schools. To force educators to out these youth to their families, and to strip the supports that affirm and validate them in our classrooms, bathrooms, and athletic arenas, will be catastrophic to these students’ mental health, and as such, their opportunity to thrive and be successful in our schools. Additionally, this policy WILL result in more VA teachers leaving the profession. This policy does not allow educators to do their job - support, affirm, and teach every child who comes into their classroom, regardless of their identity. We cannot afford to lose more qualified VA teachers. All students will suffer as a result.

Is is not for the state to police identities and who is and is not afforded a high quality education in public schools.


Transgender student protection removal

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Opposed! Keep protections!


This will bring harm to trans kids.


Over 20 years teaching - I oppose this bill

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Never in my life have I been so disappointed as an educator and a mother. Our students are brilliant individuals who deserve respect, deserve to be seen and deserve to be acknowledged with the gender they identify with.  As a mother, I could not imagine a school system not honoring my child’s gender and/or name. How insensitive are we? For so many of our students, school is the ONLY place they are seen and heard. Sometimes students  only have trusted adults are in the school system and how do we earn their trust if we won’t simply acknowledge a gender identity or name change.
You are making Virginia ignorant, insensitive and a disappointment for those of us who call this state our home. Let’s put our time and energy into our homeless veterans, mental health awareness and the hundreds of other issues that require our assistance.


I am completely opposed.

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I am completely opposed.


I oppose

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<p>Please consider all children and stop the bigotry and hate </p>


Strongly oppose this policy.

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<p>Where to begin: this policy proposal is wrong on so many levels. I’ll start by saying how detrimental this would be to the mental health of transgender kids. There is already a higher rate of suicide among transgender youth; a rate that is increased drastically when their identities are not respected. By refusing to respect their identities without parental consent, the government would be directly harming these children and forcing a transphobic narrative to reign in schools. Schools should always be a safe space for every child, regardless of any form of identity, especially protected classes such as gender identity. This policy would render schools unsafe for many students, some of whom may not have the support that they need at home. It is horrifying that the government would even consider taking this necessary form of safety away from any child. Furthermore, there is no solid argument to be made to even enforce this plan. Calling someone by their preferred, and therefore proper, name and pronouns does no harm to anyone; however, refusing to do so can cause severe emotional suffering. The only people who stand to benefit from this are abusive and transphobic parents who will not separate their ignorance from their parenting. I urge the state to not allow this legislation to pass and to acknowledge that the very idea of this policy is cruel to all children in the state of Virginia. Kids need love, assistance, and protection; all of which would explicitly be denied to transgender youth if this policy were to pass. </p>


Fully support


Opposed

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The only parent's rights being threatened are those of the LBGTQ parents who are advocating for their children and trying to shield them from discrimination.  The rights that need to be protected are the rights of the LBGTQ students who are entitled to be whoever they want to be.  Good parents advocate for their children, love them exactly as they are, and don't teach them to stand in judgment of people who are causing no harm and simply living their lives.


This will bring harm to trans kids.

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This will bring harm to trans kids.


I fully oppose this.


Strongly support parental rights

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<p>This should be common sense that parents make the decisions for their children and should be fully informed by the education system concerning the care of their child. This is not a socialist state where children belong to the state. School systems should not be indoctrinating children with gender ideology potentially putting them on a path they may not fully understand the full weight of their decision. It has been documented that transitioning is very difficult for adults. Why would we push and encourage this decision on young children when growing up is already so difficult. Those that are truly trans should be treated with the same respect and kindness as everyone else and this policy is in agreement with this. What the opposition wants is to encourage this on young developing minds when they do not bear the responsibility of seeing the child through the whole process. They are not responsible for the mental health, medical procedures, or the well-being of the child. It will be the child’s family that will have to endure all of this. The decision belongs to the parents to guide their child to adulthood. </p>


It is a grave mistake to pass this.

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It is a grave mistake to pass this.


I am completely opposed.


Strongly oppose

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<p>I strongly oppose this proposed policy. </p>


I am strongly opposed.


Appalling policy


Policies should condemn hate not set a precedent for it as this one does against transgender kids.

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This policy is the opposite of love. It is hate. It overtly targets transgender children. Every leading child development organization, medical organization, and psychiatric organization supports affirming transgender and gender different kids. We are better than this and we are certainly smarter than this, at least humanity as a whole is. Those in charge of writing policy should at the very least see human dignity as a fundamental right and insure that every human is protected in that right.


Strongly oppose

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Enough with the persecution of LGBTQ people.  Live and let live y'all.


It is a grave mistake to pass this.


Oppose any restriction on the rights of transgender children

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Give them everything they need to live a happy life and support the wishes of the parents that support their happiness.

Nothing good will come out of Youngkin's mean-spirited proposal.


Approve

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<p>I support and applaud this effort by Governor Youngkin.  Parents should be involved in all matters involving their minor children. </p>


This will bring harm to trans kids.


This is a horrible idea

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If they allow this transgender law to pass they will be discriminating against so many people in this school system. I know several people that aren’t out to there parents because they are terrified about what the consequences are, but at school they can be who they want. Passing this law would be either forcefully outing these students or make them more ashamed of who they are. I hope the officials think about the people they will be affecting more than a political agenda they want to push in our schools.


Strongly oppose.


100% with Governor Youngkin

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<p>The lunacy of transgenderism must end as it detrimental not just to those poor kids that don't know what they are but also to the normal kids who must listen to the nonsense that boys can be girls and girls can be boys.  There are TWO genders and a quick peek at one's groin area will tell that person what he or she is.  If that person is not happy with what nature provided, then get psychiatric help.  There is no sane reason to tailor a school system's educational agenda and classroom instruction according to the myth that the sexes are interchangeable.  If less than 1% (?) of the world's population can't figure this basic task out and parents won't help their own children, then that is a truly sad state of affairs but it is a problem for those children, not the rest of normal humanity.  Finally, there is a governor who will stand up to the evil madness being imposed on innocent kids.  And all the bots, i.e. fake people, in the world submitting the same exact comment won't change the reality that the overwhelming majority of parents, grandparents, and kids old enough to know better understand that nature doesn't lie.  </p>


Do not do this.


Harmful! Strongly Oppose

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This will harm our youth. Whether or not you agree, CHILDREN will be affected. The data shows us that the more a student is not supported, the more likely they are to self harm or commit suicide. Passing this would be evil.


ALL means ALL

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<p>ALL means ALL, if not expect resistance. I’m going to promote a safe, nurturing and wholesome environment for ALL students. </p>


I fully oppose this.


I oppose this fully.


Governor Youngkins Transgender Student policies

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<p>God makes transgender people too, Governor. Love them! </p>


This proposal will harm children.

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The proposed guidance document will forcibly out trans children to potentially devastating effect.  If the child has kept their gender identity secret from their parents it is likely because the child fears the consequences of revealing it.  Those consequences can be deadly as many parents have said, "Rather a dead child than a trans one."  Even if the parents do not mete out physical harm themselves they can create an environment that can lead to self harm.

Beyond that, this guidance leads to turning schools into hostile environments for trans students.  Any safety and trust they may have had with their teachers will evaporate.

In short, this guidance will hurt and likely kill children.


Opposed

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May our politicians treat our children like Christ would…


I am an educator who strongly opposes this policy.

Hailey Ballard, Albemarle County Public Schools

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<p>This is a fear-based policy that will harm some of our most vulnerable students. Transgender students should have the same rights and protections at school that all other students have. They should not be forced to conform to religious beliefs and societal norms for the sake of uncomfortable parents. </p>


Finally some.common sense, love this!

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After everything that has happened in the past few years I am so happy schools are finally supporting parents and their children. My children have felt devalued by the CRT being shoved down their throats and were fearful of expressing any differing views. My son and daughter both felt uncomfortable with being forced to accept opposite sex classmates in their bathrooms and showers. The desires of less than 1% were being pushed over the feelings and needs of the rest of the children in an attempt to indoctrinate them into something they weren't comfortable with. Thank God for some common sense finally.


This is a terrible policy decision.

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This is a terrible policy decision.


Fully SUPPORT

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“The Department also fully acknowledges the rights of parents to exercise their fundamental rights granted by the Fourteenth Amendment of the U.S. Constitution to direct the care, upbringing, and education of their children. The Code of Virginia reaffirms the rights of parents to determine how their children will be raised and educated. Empowering parents is not only a fundamental right, but it is essential to improving outcomes for all children in Virginia. ”

Thank you for giving parents the right to raise their children, not subverting their role but supporting the family.


Strongly oppose

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This is a disaster for children!


I am strongly opposed.


issues with this policy

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How is this policy to be enforced?  Are administrators going to attend classes to make sure teachers are using the proscribed names?  Will students be recruited to inform on their teachers? If a child's name is listed as "Michael" and they ask to be called "Mickey," will the teacher be in violation of the policy if they don't call them "Michael?" You can't have a policy that requires a teacher to honor a child's choice of name only in some cases but not in others.  How would that work?

And then there is the issue of a teacher's free speech right to ignore a child's name preference even if the child has gone through the proper procedures to be called that name. If a teacher has this  free speech right, do they not also have the free speech right to call a child by their preferred name without the paperwork  being done?  You don't get to invoke free speech privilege selectively- that is, only when the speech conforms to what you wanted the speech to be.

How is it the school's or the teacher's responsibility to insert themselves into issues between parents and children? I thought this was anathema to conservatives, such as Glenn Youngkin. Teachers need to teach their content. Expecting them (and school administrators) to also manage family dynamics is putting an unfair burden on the teachers and schools.  If the child you named Anna wants to now be called AJ. and you either don't know about it or you don't approve of it, then that is a problem for you to handle. Don't expect the school to solve your parenting issue.  Teachers should not be put in this position.

I suspect the governor hasn't considered the enforcement issues, legal issues, or the position this puts teachers and administrators in.  It seems obvious that this policy is illegal, and was proposed cynically just to score political points. He knows the whole thing is bogus and he doesn't care. But the thing is, it causes real harm, even though it is a fake and unserious policy.  Please shut this down immediately.  It is harassment of both teachers and vulnerable children.  Youngkin's already got what he wanted from it anyway.  Please think of the children now.


I am strongly opposed

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<p>I oppose these changes and the harm they will cause. Anyone who agrees with these policies knows nothing about trans kids and only pretend to care about parental rights. </p>


Strongly Oppose

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I strongly oppose the Governor's proposed restrictions and hateful policy.  These restrictions would be harmful to students and serve no purpose other than advancing the Governor's fascist agenda.


Do not do this.


I do not support a revision.

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The DOE cannot simultaneously "advance equitable learning" and support this measure. A revision of the Model Policies for the Treatment of Transgender Students would have a devastating effect on our transgender students.


I am completely opposed.

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I am completely opposed.


I agree with the new policy changes 100%!!!

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I agree to the new proposed document/policy that parents should be making all decisions about their children!!!!


This will bring harm to trans kids.

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This will bring harm to trans kids.


It is a grave mistake to pass this.

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It is a grave mistake to pass this.


I oppose this.

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<p>I don't understand why laws would be put in place to harm children.  If all lives matter, why don't you consider the lives of transgender children.  Everyone wants to put their own beliefs in the minds of others.   I don't understand that brutal way of thinking.  Everyone is a walking contradiction and ignores what our teachings of Christ have taught us. Shame on you for creating a program to promote hate. </p>


It is a grave mistake to pass this.


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I oppose this in the strongest possible manor.


This is a terrible policy decision.


Strongly oppose.


Support-

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<p>Protect ALL children </p>


Best thing I’ve seen yet! Fully support!! POTUS approved

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Fully support. I need more ice cream


Strongly oppose this measure

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This is a horrific and dangerous policy that only seeks to allow parents total control over their children at massive psychological costs. School should be a safe haven for children to learn not just about standard subjects, but also about themselves and how to interact with the world. Policies like these not only encourage children to hide themselves away, but they also teach total intolerance for anything other than the small world that they grew up within. Do not pass this legislation. Protect children by allowing them to be themselves, by allowing them to have autonomy over who they are, and by allowing them to have agency in their lives. It's absolutely abhorrent that this policy is being considered and it should not pass.


I strongly oppose this policy

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As a teacher in VA, I strongly oppose this policy. It will hurt trans students, impacting their mental, and social health issues. ALL of my students deserve to be respected and belong and this policy will do the opposite.


This is good.  More common sense policies.

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I am thankful that parents are being included in their children's choices.  At that young age, parents need to know what's happening.  It's also good to have privacy in bathrooms, and to protect our youth in sports.  Thank you, thank you.


New School policies


No! Take lead from Utah Governor

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<p>This will lead to blood on your hands! Look at the data and not someone closed minded opinion. </p>


This will lead to death, and it will be on this governor's hands.

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LGBTQ people are people. Actual and whole.

LGBTQ youth are more than four times as likely to attempt suicide than their peers (Johns et al., 2019; Johns et al., 2020).

The Trevor Project’s 2022 National Survey on LGBTQ Youth Mental Health found that 45% of LGBTQ youth seriously considered attempting suicide in the past year, including more than half of transgender and nonbinary youth.

Visibility, and treating people as the same humans as everyone else, goes a long way to combat that.  These proposed rules would exacerbate that.

This is anti-scientific policy and would perpetrate a great evil.

As a Virginia parent, I urge you to desist from this destructive course.  Allow me, as you claim, to parent my children as I wish--in justice, allyship, and humanity.


Do not do this.


STRONGLY oppose

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This is a horrific law, that ignores the scientific and medical consensus about the health and well-being of OUR CHILDREN, and fuels hatred and cruelty towards an already painfully vulnerable segment of OUR CHILDREN, so that some politicians (looking RIGHT at you, Youngkin) can use hatred and fear of some of OUR CHILDREN to fuel their own political careers and gain political power.

Shame on those of you who pretend to be "pro-life" when it comes to coercing women to serve as incubators without rights over their own internal organs, but are willing to see children driven to suicide to further your own power, or your own fear of a world where people cannot be neatly classified in tidy little boxes according to their genitals at birth without concern for anything else about them. If you care about lives, if you care about innocent children, but you would see trans children forcibly outed to abusive parents, forcibly misgendered and misnamed at a place where they are forced to spend 7-8 hours a day every weekday, knowing that this means more kids will live in pain and suffering and more kids will die - then you don't give a crap about lives, you only care about those who are safe, those who are Just Like You, those who don't scare you by being different in ways that make you uncomfy.

These are KIDS. With a known medical condition, which has a known medical treatment (being supported in their gender identity, and allowed to physically transition ONCE THEY REACH ADULTHOOD - no, four-year-olds are not being subjected to permanent surgery here, guys), that does wonders to save lives and make kids with this condition mentally and physically healthier. If you would withhold this treatment from all kids in Virginia - even those whose parents WANT them to be supported and properly cared for, parents who are NOT as abusive and hateful towards their own children as you would like them to be - then you are a murderer, plain and simple, as surely as you would be if you forbade parents to vaccinate their children or give insulin to diabetic children.

Kids don't transition for casual reasons, or just to "get a look" at the other sex - goodness knows they have no trouble finding that on the Internet. Being trans is hard, it's scary, it subjects them to abuse and cruelty and pain. They transition because they cannot go on living as they are, because it hurts them to look in the mirror, because they know full well who they are and are being told every day that they're someone else, someone they don't even know. These are scared, vulnerable, desperate kids, and they don't need to be made to suffer unnecessarily because smug adults whose idea of sex and gender stopped at fourth grade biology don't like the fact that they don't conform to the boxes they "should" fit into.


What about the rights of parents of trans students?

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This guidance claims to protect the rights of parents. But how could it when it discriminates against the rights of parents of trans students. Are those parents supposed to hide their trans and lgbtq children away? If anti lgbtq parents don't want to see trans or other gender non conforming kids, are their parents supposed to lock their kids in a closet? This new guidance hurts vulnerable children who are only being themselves while restricting the rights of their parents to accept their children's innate gender identity. It's simple bigotry pushed by the state govt.


This is a terrible policy decision.

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This is a terrible policy decision.


Fully support

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<p>I fully support this policy. I’ve taught for 10 years in Northern Virginia, and have always viewed my student’s parent as a partner in their child’s education. To hear administrators in my school tell the students that their parents don’t have to know if they decide to be called by a “preferred” name, goes against all my core beliefs as an educator. I will not turn a blind eye to the masses of confused children (as young as 5) in our school, who are now questioning their own identity. I see this at my school more than ever the last few years. School systems need to stop trying to overstep their boundaries, and simply do their job of educating the children, not indoctrinating the future of our country. </p>


Stop bullying trans people

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Leave our trans community alone! As a straight male it's so disheartening to see my fellow citizens (taxpayers) who happen to be trans, or their kid is trans, get bullied by the policies being proposed from the top: our government entities. These policies trickle down hatred, and enable bullies to justify their bullying. This is supposed to be a free country where you can be whoever you want to be. Let them do what they want. It's their life. Not yours. Don't like them? Fine, you're free to not like them. But, that doesn't justify bullying them across multiple spectrums as a result of any anti-trans policy or elected official's public stance.  This same concept applies to anyone of any type, you are free to exist in this country but don't be a jerk to your fellow tax paying citizens, you have so much more in common than you think, trans or not. Stop bullying trans people, period. -D. Meyer


Completely Opposed

The fact that this is even a question anymore is absolutely barbaric. Trans people deserve the right to feel safe and comfortable in their schools, whether or not it is YOUR preference. You would not appreciate being called a name you dislike, nor being misgendered. Why do you get special treatment because you're Cisgender?Treat trans people like people. It's not that hard.

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The fact that this is even a question anymore is absolutely barbaric. Trans people deserve the right to feel safe and comfortable in their schools, whether or not it is YOUR preference. You would not appreciate being called a name you dislike, nor being misgendered. Why do you get special treatment because you're Cisgender?
Treat trans people like people. It's not that hard.


I am completely opposed.

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I am completely opposed.


Strongly oppose


Strongly oppose

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No good can come of this policy, only harm to trans children. These children are no threat to others and should be granted all the same rights as their cisgender peers, including to be addressed with their chosen names and pronouns and to participate in activities alongside other children of the same gender identity.


I strongly oppose

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<p>I strongly oppose this new policy. It's wrong. </p>