Call it what it is, and stop targeting minors.

I have a lot of first hand experience with this topic. I’m an 18 year old trans girl who has experienced the effect on my high school community and the broader city of Charlottesville when children who identify as transgender don’t have access to safe restrooms that affirm their gender identities. Youngkin’s recently proposed transgender policy seeks to criminalize and target people who identify with the LGBTQ+ community; Youngkin’s transgender policy will leave minors of many demographics defenseless against the boarders set in place to constrict their fundamental rights.Youngkin’s transgender policy insights more violence and disorder in Virginia’s public school systems by endangering the social and physical well being of trans minors and their peers. Stop targeting trans youth. Stop invalidating queer identities. Stop endangering at risk children by placing them in socially and physically unsafe bathrooms.

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Youngkin’s transgender policy insights more violence and disorder in Virginia’s public school systems by endangering the social and physical well being of trans minors and their peers.

Stop targeting trans youth. Stop invalidating queer identities. Stop endangering at risk children by placing them in socially and physically unsafe bathrooms.


Discrimination against trans students and their parents

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"This policy discriminates against trans students and their parents. The original policy upheld the rights of trans students and their parents while taking NOTHING from cisgender students and their parents. The claim that school divisions under the original policy are depriving parents of rights is a myth designed to manufacture outrage. This new policy is cruel and discriminatory and the Youngkin Administration should be ashamed of itself."}'>This policy discriminates against trans students and their parents. The original policy upheld the rights of trans students and their parents while taking NOTHING from cisgender students and their parents. The claim that school divisions under the original policy are depriving parents of rights is a myth designed to manufacture outrage. This new policy is cruel and discriminatory and the Youngkin Administration should be ashamed of itself.


I OPPOSE the guidance

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"As a parent with children in public schools in Virginia, I strongly disagree that teachers should be required to \"out\" their trans student to their parents in order to use their preferred name or pronouns. This could highly endanger children who may be already in an unsafe home environment. It's also a flimsy premise - students have long been able to be called by their preferred name (e.g., nicknames) without calling their parents. We all went to school with a \"TJ\" or \"Mike.\" \nTrans kids are just kids, and they deserve the privacy and respect the school system provides for all kids."}">As a parent with children in public schools in Virginia, I strongly disagree that teachers should be required to "out" their trans student to their parents in order to use their preferred name or pronouns. This could highly endanger children who may be already in an unsafe home environment. It's also a flimsy premise - students have long been able to be called by their preferred name (e.g., nicknames) without calling their parents. We all went to school with a "TJ" or "Mike."
Trans kids are just kids, and they deserve the privacy and respect the school system provides for all kids.


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I fully support this! Parents know their children’s needs better than anyone. If children are struggling with gender dysphoria, they need guidance and emotional support from their parents. Under the new policies, school officials must keep parents fully informed, and require schools to enforce laws, regulations and policies that prohibit and deter bullying or harassment.

Keeping parents out of this is NUTS.


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I am a parent of a nonbinary student in Arlington. I am glad that our schools have been supportive and accommodating, and fervently hope that this will continue without interference.


Strongly Oppose this guidance

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"As an educator who has worked closely with transgender kids for many years, this guidance is dangerous and unethical. It goes against educators efforts to create an inclusive and safe space for learning. It encourages hate and division. \nI have personally had a trans student commit suicide due to their not feeling accepted and included. It was a heartbreak that I will never forget and I carry them with me in the fight for safe and inclusive schools and classrooms. \nI strongly oppose this guidance. "}'>As an educator who has worked closely with transgender kids for many years, this guidance is dangerous and unethical. It goes against educators efforts to create an inclusive and safe space for learning. It encourages hate and division.
I have personally had a trans student commit suicide due to their not feeling accepted and included. It was a heartbreak that I will never forget and I carry them with me in the fight for safe and inclusive schools and classrooms.
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I am so ashamed to be living in Virginia right now! Trans kids belong in Virginia! What happened to Virginia is for lovers??? TRANS KIDS BELONG PERIOD!!!


I srongly oppose this Guidance

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I am a licensed clinical social worker who works with people from 10 - 30 years old who are transgender or have gender dysphoria. I have seen the increased risk of suicide in this population, especially in response to parent, educational, and political leaders who use hateful, ignorant rhetoric. Many of my clients have been harrassed, bullied, and physically attacked as a result of others who feel they have the right to act out their own fears toward them. Sometimes, parents, the people who are supposed to protect and nurture them, are the very people who have been encouraged by Guidance such as that in the Model Policies for Treatment of Transgender Students in Virginia's Public Schools (2022). I strongly oppose this guidance and encourage the State Board of Education to adopt model policies that encourage kindness and undersatnding among parents, staff, and students.

Dan Campbell, LCSW

(703)864-6003

pronouns: he/him/his


I OPPOSE the guidance

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"I'm a 16-year-old nonbinary student. I started attending my school in 4th grade, however, I went to another school in 2020. That school year I became suicidal for a number of reasons, one of which was my gender. After 2020 I went back and I've been going by Travis ever since. All my teachers know me as Travis and address me as such. Most teachers know I use they/them pronouns. The passing of this policy would force everyone to refer to me differently than they have been. While my identity is important, it's not relevant to school and this policy should not police it. From my research, Youngkin has always held transphobic beliefs. He de-railed a potentially productive sexual assault case in Loudoun County to be about transgender bathroom rights. I find it distressing that I have to worry if my governor is going to take away my rights. I oppose this bill because I think it's a waste of time. There are more pressing issues in Virginia than transgender children existing."}">I'm a 16-year-old nonbinary student. I started attending my school in 4th grade, however, I went to another school in 2020. That school year I became suicidal for a number of reasons, one of which was my gender. After 2020 I went back and I've been going by Travis ever since. All my teachers know me as Travis and address me as such. Most teachers know I use they/them pronouns. The passing of this policy would force everyone to refer to me differently than they have been. While my identity is important, it's not relevant to school and this policy should not police it. From my research, Youngkin has always held transphobic beliefs. He de-railed a potentially productive sexual assault case in Loudoun County to be about transgender bathroom rights. I find it distressing that I have to worry if my governor is going to take away my rights. I oppose this bill because I think it's a waste of time. There are more pressing issues in Virginia than transgender children existing.


you are in for a shock.

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"This and everything Youngkin has been trying to make Virginia into will not continue. I walked out my 8th grade year to make sure my sibling and the younger generation would get the respect and comfortability my generation and many before us did not receive. My generation and the new voters will not let this stand, we will shock you on our turn out and we will not let you disservice our siblings and the different children of this state."}'>This and everything Youngkin has been trying to make Virginia into will not continue. I walked out my 8th grade year to make sure my sibling and the younger generation would get the respect and comfortability my generation and many before us did not receive. My generation and the new voters will not let this stand, we will shock you on our turn out and we will not let you disservice our siblings and the different children of this state.


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I don't have a story to tell--I'm just trying to be empathetic and understanding to people in these situations. I want people to love themselves, regardless of who they are.


Support trans youth

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I STAND WITH TRANS AND NONBINARY STUDENTS! I OPPOSE THIS POLICY


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protecting our kids means supporting ALL kids!


Support

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<p>I support the 2022 guidance. Schools should never undermine parents. </p>


Please Do NOT adopt new policies

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"Please do not take away protections from some of our most vulnerable students.  Students in the LGBTQ community need their schools to support, love and respect them, not treat them as different or wrong.  Protect the current policies to allow trans and non-binary students to be affirmed at school and do NOT adopt new policies removing their rights.  Government and laws were never meant to remove rights.  They were supposed to affirm people’s rights.  The most constitutional thing would be to affirm their rights,.  Don’t take them away!"}'>Please do not take away protections from some of our most vulnerable students. Students in the LGBTQ community need their schools to support, love and respect them, not treat them as different or wrong. Protect the current policies to allow trans and non-binary students to be affirmed at school and do NOT adopt new policies removing their rights. Government and laws were never meant to remove rights. They were supposed to affirm people’s rights. The most constitutional thing would be to affirm their rights,. Don’t take them away!


Leave the trans community alone

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I fully support the Trans community and all LGBTQI+ people, especially the youth of our state! I am in opposition to any proposals that target young people and puts them at risk. I will vote my convictions and fight against the oppression of those that are just being themselves!


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I oppose Youngkin’s piece of legislation- stop rolling back rights for the most vulnerable! This will no doubt cause but seclusion and suicides- withdrawal this damaging campaign to cause more alienation. Look at the student walkouts!


I strongly oppose these policy changes.

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These policy proposals will do real harm to children and their relationships with their parents and teachers. These proposals will not protect anyone. Stop policing our public schools and our children in this way.


I OPPOSE the guidance

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"I work at a local college campus with our LGBTQ+ population of students. I have seen first hand the impact of anti-trans, anti-lgbtq legislation. Our own community is not immune to the suicidal rates reflected nationally among this population of students. I have seen first hand that it is legislation like this and experiences of non affirming treatment that contributes to our local and national numbers for anxiety, depression, and suicide. This experience starts in the schools. Learning cannot occur if these students are too busy fearing for their lives or struggling with oppression, body dysmorphia, fear and depression. I STRONGLY OPPOSE the draft policy as this would be a step backwards for our mental health crisis and supporting our children. Only affirmation, love, and guidance will improve the mental health of a large population of individuals."}'>I work at a local college campus with our LGBTQ+ population of students. I have seen first hand the impact of anti-trans, anti-lgbtq legislation. Our own community is not immune to the suicidal rates reflected nationally among this population of students. I have seen first hand that it is legislation like this and experiences of non affirming treatment that contributes to our local and national numbers for anxiety, depression, and suicide. This experience starts in the schools. Learning cannot occur if these students are too busy fearing for their lives or struggling with oppression, body dysmorphia, fear and depression. I STRONGLY OPPOSE the draft policy as this would be a step backwards for our mental health crisis and supporting our children. Only affirmation, love, and guidance will improve the mental health of a large population of individuals.


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The proposed VDOE policies for dealing with transgender and non-binary school children are cruel and I do not support their implementation. There will consequences at the ballot box for those that discriminate against these children for political gain.


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I OPPOSE the draft policy & want the VDOE to reject them!


I OPPOSE the guidance


Parents are their child's first teacher

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Parents are a child's first teacher and know their children’s needs better than anyone. Children need guidance and emotional support from their parents. In order to provide that support, school officials must keep parents fully informed.


I OPPOSE the guidance

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"I am writing to speak out against Governor Youngkin's proposed policies that target trans and non-binary students. Our students have a fundamental right to express their identity and be addressed with their chosen name and pronouns. Creating a safe school environment is essential to student success. Please do not adopt Youngkin's policies. We need to be moving forward instead of backwards with civil rights and treating all Virginians with a fundamental level of respect."}">I am writing to speak out against Governor Youngkin's proposed policies that target trans and non-binary students. Our students have a fundamental right to express their identity and be addressed with their chosen name and pronouns. Creating a safe school environment is essential to student success. Please do not adopt Youngkin's policies. We need to be moving forward instead of backwards with civil rights and treating all Virginians with a fundamental level of respect.


Violation of civil rights

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<p>Youngkins policy is a huge violation of civil rights for lgbtq+ students! Federal law and Title IX  however, requires schools to ensure that LGBTQI+ students and other students have equal access to all aspects of a school’s programs and activities. I don't have an LGBTQ+ child, but I can't imagine if I did and the things that are running through their mind with the bs that this administration is trying to pull. Are we really going to let them take us back to the dark ages when we've just begun to step into the light? Next thing you know we'll be back to segregated schools. Nothing good will come of Youngkins attempt to strip protections away from children! </p>


Violation of civil rights


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I oppose Youngkin’s proposed student policy.


I am completely opposed.

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I am completely opposed.


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I OPPOSE the guidance

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"There are many things that are infuriating about the guidance, and many will directly put trans youths at risk. Every student, regardless of their gender and pronouns, deserves to feel safe at school and at all. If they are forced to be outed to people that may be a risk to the student's safety, the government should be held responsible for the displacement and damage dealt to youths impacted by this anti-trans policy. The government should protect its people, not jeopardize their safety. What use is a government if all it seeks to inspire hate and fear in the children of its people?"}">There are many things that are infuriating about the guidance, and many will directly put trans youths at risk. Every student, regardless of their gender and pronouns, deserves to feel safe at school and at all. If they are forced to be outed to people that may be a risk to the student's safety, the government should be held responsible for the displacement and damage dealt to youths impacted by this anti-trans policy. The government should protect its people, not jeopardize their safety. What use is a government if all it seeks to inspire hate and fear in the children of its people?


Oppose this policy

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<p>I oppose this policy.  Keep the government out of family decisions.  </p>


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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"Our Trans youth need our protection, not adults outing them. The only person that has a right to choose their pronouns are themselves, NOT their parents. I am terrified for the trans kids who have parents that would rather see them dead than a different gender. I am also terrified of what kids will do to themselves if they have to live and go by an identity that doesn't align with what is inside them. Please please do not let this pass. Terrible things will happen to our kids. I completely oppose this."}">Our Trans youth need our protection, not adults outing them. The only person that has a right to choose their pronouns are themselves, NOT their parents. I am terrified for the trans kids who have parents that would rather see them dead than a different gender. I am also terrified of what kids will do to themselves if they have to live and go by an identity that doesn't align with what is inside them. Please please do not let this pass. Terrible things will happen to our kids. I completely oppose this.


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<p>As if transgender children don’t have enough to navigate, stop targeting them. If they tell you who they are, believe them. How is it harming anyone else to call a child by a preferred name or pronoun? </p>


I Support Trans Children

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"it is difficult enough to be different, and one of the things that makes it less hard is the support of the \"grown ups\" in one's life. In the case of gender-expansive children, it is often the difference between life and death. Using affirming names, acknowledging (even if you think it's a phase) who these children are telling you they are, supporting them as they discover themselves and decide (as we all do, every day) who they want to be in the world is not only a gift, but it is our only responsibility. I stand with trans and gender-expansive children. I am grateful for what I have to learn from them. I OPPOSE the guidance that would strip them of essential care, support and dignity.\n"}">it is difficult enough to be different, and one of the things that makes it less hard is the support of the "grown ups" in one's life. In the case of gender-expansive children, it is often the difference between life and death. Using affirming names, acknowledging (even if you think it's a phase) who these children are telling you they are, supporting them as they discover themselves and decide (as we all do, every day) who they want to be in the world is not only a gift, but it is our only responsibility. I stand with trans and gender-expansive children. I am grateful for what I have to learn from them. I OPPOSE the guidance that would strip them of essential care, support and dignity.


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PLEASE vote against this proposal. This is incredibly harmful and dangerous to our transgender and non-binary students. Trans kids already have some of the highest rates of suicide, enforcing the laws proposed would only make sure to increase those rates. We need to protect our children from harm.


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I OPPOSE the new guidance!!!


STRONG OPPOSITION

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"As a parent and a clinical social worker with 15 years of experience working with children and families, I want to state my strong opposition to these model policies. These policies will do real, immediate harm to children who are trans, gender expansive, or even questioning their gender identity. We KNOW that trans, nonbinary, and gender expansive children exist at almost every developmental stage, and the biggest thing we as adults can do to ensure their mental health is AFFIRM who they say they are. Forcing children to use bathrooms that are inconsistent with their gender or join sports teams that are inconsistent with their gender will immediately INCREASE the risk of suicide for these kids. Some children are lucky enough to have parents who support and affirm them (I know them and have worked with them!), and those parents rights will be affected by schools and teachers refusing to affirm their children. For children who do not have affirming families (I know them and have worked with them, too, and it's heartbreaking), school represents a safe haven where they can truly be themselves. Public schools exist to educate and support ALL kids, and this should include trans, nonbinary, and gender expansive youth. These kids should be free from discrimination and hate when they are in school."}">As a parent and a clinical social worker with 15 years of experience working with children and families, I want to state my strong opposition to these model policies. These policies will do real, immediate harm to children who are trans, gender expansive, or even questioning their gender identity. We KNOW that trans, nonbinary, and gender expansive children exist at almost every developmental stage, and the biggest thing we as adults can do to ensure their mental health is AFFIRM who they say they are. Forcing children to use bathrooms that are inconsistent with their gender or join sports teams that are inconsistent with their gender will immediately INCREASE the risk of suicide for these kids. Some children are lucky enough to have parents who support and affirm them (I know them and have worked with them!), and those parents rights will be affected by schools and teachers refusing to affirm their children. For children who do not have affirming families (I know them and have worked with them, too, and it's heartbreaking), school represents a safe haven where they can truly be themselves. Public schools exist to educate and support ALL kids, and this should include trans, nonbinary, and gender expansive youth. These kids should be free from discrimination and hate when they are in school.


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I STRONGLY oppose this cruel policy. Trans people EXIST. This is blatantly discriminatory, and serves no purpose. The policy is intended to harm young people. Cruel. History is not going to be on the side of this kind of hateful thinking.


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I support VA Governor Youngkins proposal and the actions taken to help parents keep confusion out of their childrens lives by someone outside of their own bodies and families. Support families not politics and bad decisions!


I SUPPORT the guidance

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The new policies honor the sacred role of parents in the care of their children during school, athletics and other activities.

Parents know their children’s needs better than anyone. If children are struggling with gender dysphoria, they need guidance and emotional support from their parents. Under the new policies,     school officials must keep parents fully informed, and require schools to enforce laws, regulations and policies that prohibit and deter bullying or harassment.

Student participation in sex-specific athletics, school activities and events should be determined by sex, e.g., for overnight travel accommodations and locker rooms.

Students should use the bathrooms that correspond to their sex. Single-user bathrooms and facilities should be made available in accessible areas and provided with appropriate signage, indicating accessibility for all students.

The new policies protect the fundamental religious liberty interests of personnel and students.


Governor Youngkin's Changes only HURT TRANS KIDS/ADOLESCENTS

Dear Lawmakers and VDOE,While I respect that many are divided on this issue, I firmly believe the changes recently made in 2022 by Governor Youngkin violate a person's basic civil rights. Yes children are children and parents should be involved in all matters pertaining to minors. BUT - and a big BUT - some youth who are trans, or gay, or lesbian, or bi, or queer, or trying to figure it all out DO NOT HAVE SUPPORT AT HOME and are further marginalized in their home setting. Being in a "safe space" which school is supposed to be allows a young person to request people acknowledge who they identify themselves to be. Schools should continue to build on what former Governor Northam had in place, which was backed by SCIENTIFIC DATA. Let kids pick their pronouns, how they want to be addressed (i.e. name or nickname), and give them a safe place to use the bathroom if they don't conform to gender norms. And stop making it more than it needs to be. Simply creating gender neutral bathrooms in future school buildings will eliminate that issue. Look at James Madison University which has done this beautifully. Their dorms also have gender neutral bathrooms which LOCK and a person can use the bathroom in peace. Halleluiah!Take care of ALL Virginia children by doing what is right, not what a super conservative minority of uneducated people want done.Take care of our kids!Sincerely,J Brown NOrfok VA

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"Dear Lawmakers and VDOE,\nWhile I respect that many are divided on this issue, I firmly believe the changes recently made in 2022 by Governor Youngkin violate a person's basic civil rights.  Yes children are children and parents should be involved in all matters pertaining to minors.  BUT - and a big BUT - some youth who are trans, or gay, or lesbian, or bi, or queer, or trying to figure it all out DO NOT HAVE SUPPORT AT HOME and are further marginalized in their home setting.  Being in a \"safe space\" which school is supposed to be allows a young person to request people acknowledge who they identify themselves to be.  Schools should continue to build on what former Governor Northam had in place, which was backed by SCIENTIFIC DATA.  \nLet kids pick their pronouns, how they want to be addressed (i.e. name or nickname), and give them a safe place to use the bathroom if they don't conform to gender norms.  And stop making it more than it needs to be.  Simply creating gender neutral bathrooms in future school buildings will eliminate that issue.  Look at James Madison University which has done this beautifully.  Their dorms also have gender neutral bathrooms which LOCK and a person can use the bathroom in peace.  Halleluiah!\nTake care of ALL Virginia children by doing what is right, not what a super conservative minority of uneducated people want done.\nTake care of our kids!\nSincerely,\nJ Brown NOrfok VA"}">Dear Lawmakers and VDOE,
While I respect that many are divided on this issue, I firmly believe the changes recently made in 2022 by Governor Youngkin violate a person's basic civil rights. Yes children are children and parents should be involved in all matters pertaining to minors. BUT - and a big BUT - some youth who are trans, or gay, or lesbian, or bi, or queer, or trying to figure it all out DO NOT HAVE SUPPORT AT HOME and are further marginalized in their home setting. Being in a "safe space" which school is supposed to be allows a young person to request people acknowledge who they identify themselves to be. Schools should continue to build on what former Governor Northam had in place, which was backed by SCIENTIFIC DATA.
Let kids pick their pronouns, how they want to be addressed (i.e. name or nickname), and give them a safe place to use the bathroom if they don't conform to gender norms. And stop making it more than it needs to be. Simply creating gender neutral bathrooms in future school buildings will eliminate that issue. Look at James Madison University which has done this beautifully. Their dorms also have gender neutral bathrooms which LOCK and a person can use the bathroom in peace. Halleluiah!
Take care of ALL Virginia children by doing what is right, not what a super conservative minority of uneducated people want done.
Take care of our kids!
Sincerely,
J Brown NOrfok VA


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As a transgender student in Virginia, I can assure that this policy will do nothing but endanger trans youth and provide a gateway for domestic violence, drug abuse, mental health endangerment, and homelessness. These claims have always been for the “protection” of kids, but it’s proven to do the exact opposite for a majority of transgender students, including myself.


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You are torturing our young people by not allowing them to be who they know themselves to be. You have no right to interfere in their identities. They are their own person, government decrees, power hungry politicians and even ignorant parents will not change them. They are who they are. Let's work with them, support them, love them and help them become the best people they can be, regardless of what gender they affiliate with.


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Trans rights are human rights! School should be a safe place for everyone! Whether a student wants to be called by their preferred name and preferred pronouns or use a bathroom that affirms their identity does NOT affect anyone but that singular person. Let people live their lives.


I OPPOSE the guidance

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This will only increase transgender suicide rates. Their blood will be on your hands.


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I oppose this guidance.


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All children need to be protected, even if you don't agree with how they identify they should still be granted the same rights as every other student. Treat everyone equally. No child should have to fear for their life just by being themselves. Please protect the children


Support trans and nonbinary youth

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"Support trans and non-binary youth instead of stomping on their rights and pretending they don't exist. That only creates a greater crisis and it's unhealthy for the larger school climate. All students deserve safe, inclusive, and affirming schools. Equitable access to facilities, activities, and accurate & respectful representation in curriculum is essential to functionality for ALL youth. . .including but not limited to our trans and non-binary students."}">Support trans and non-binary youth instead of stomping on their rights and pretending they don't exist. That only creates a greater crisis and it's unhealthy for the larger school climate. All students deserve safe, inclusive, and affirming schools. Equitable access to facilities, activities, and accurate & respectful representation in curriculum is essential to functionality for ALL youth. . .including but not limited to our trans and non-binary students.


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I oppose the proposed plan.


I OPPOSE the guidance

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"I am writing to say that I strongly oppose Governor Youngin's proposed policy to overhaul the current guidelines for the treatment of trans students. These policies will only serve to alienate young people when they need to feel a sense of belonging, and will make them targets of bullying and harrassment at school and possibly of abuse at home. Regressive policies such as what this Governor is proposing do nothing to protect children. In fact, these policies will leave trans youth traumatized and break the bonds of trust between them and their teachers. This could very well lead to some of those children taking their own lives. If this administration and the VDOE truly care about the youth of the Commonwealth, they will not allow these policies to be put into place."}">I am writing to say that I strongly oppose Governor Youngin's proposed policy to overhaul the current guidelines for the treatment of trans students. These policies will only serve to alienate young people when they need to feel a sense of belonging, and will make them targets of bullying and harrassment at school and possibly of abuse at home. Regressive policies such as what this Governor is proposing do nothing to protect children. In fact, these policies will leave trans youth traumatized and break the bonds of trust between them and their teachers. This could very well lead to some of those children taking their own lives. If this administration and the VDOE truly care about the youth of the Commonwealth, they will not allow these policies to be put into place.


Oppose This

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<p>I vehemently oppose this legislation. Trans and non-binary kids are kids that want the same rights to freedom as the rest of us. As parents, we are supposed to guide our children not enforce our own ideals and opinions onto them. This legislation is a form of control for apparently a minority of parents. Parents who don't believe their children deserve the same rights as everyone else in our supposed free country which, to be honest, hasn't really ever been free. Let parents raise their kids at home however they want but in a public forum, kids deserve the right to express themselves as their true self without intervention from anyone. Leave the damned kids alone. </p>


I OPPOSE the guidance

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"Trans children know themselves better than anyone else does — better than their parents, teachers, and certainly better than policymakers. If a child has the courage to speak up about their internal identity, especially if that requires them to be vulnerable with adults and people in power in their schools, this act of great courage and truth NEEDS to be honored, protected, and celebrated. Trans children are not \"confused,\" not \"too young\" to know their internal sense of gender and sexuality. A cisgender child may feel at home in their body and gender, while a trans student may not. No one should feel like a stranger in their own body, or be forced to present in a way that does not feel truthful to them. By not honoring trans children's needs, preventing them from participating in activities like sports or entering bathrooms that align with their internal sense of self, policymakers in Virginia are creating an immeasurable amount of suffering. Trans children are beautiful. Trans children are wise. Trans children MUST be heard."}">Trans children know themselves better than anyone else does — better than their parents, teachers, and certainly better than policymakers. If a child has the courage to speak up about their internal identity, especially if that requires them to be vulnerable with adults and people in power in their schools, this act of great courage and truth NEEDS to be honored, protected, and celebrated. Trans children are not "confused," not "too young" to know their internal sense of gender and sexuality. A cisgender child may feel at home in their body and gender, while a trans student may not. No one should feel like a stranger in their own body, or be forced to present in a way that does not feel truthful to them. By not honoring trans children's needs, preventing them from participating in activities like sports or entering bathrooms that align with their internal sense of self, policymakers in Virginia are creating an immeasurable amount of suffering. Trans children are beautiful. Trans children are wise. Trans children MUST be heard.


I OPPOSE the guidance

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"Trans students deserve affirmation and support. Youngkin’s proposed policy does not provide parental rights to parents who affirm their child’s identity and also seeks to expose youth who have not made the decision to tell their parents, often due to safety concerns. This proposed policy will only negatively impact trans students’ experiences in school, impact their mental health for worse, and place them in even more vulnerable positions than they already are in. It does nothing to actually support all students in discovering who they are and finding comfort in their bodies and identities."}'>Trans students deserve affirmation and support. Youngkin’s proposed policy does not provide parental rights to parents who affirm their child’s identity and also seeks to expose youth who have not made the decision to tell their parents, often due to safety concerns. This proposed policy will only negatively impact trans students’ experiences in school, impact their mental health for worse, and place them in even more vulnerable positions than they already are in. It does nothing to actually support all students in discovering who they are and finding comfort in their bodies and identities.


Oppose

These new policies jeopardize the very lives of trans and non-binary children. I have seen the implosion of self-destructive behavior that stems from children being denied the ability to live as who they know they are, or worse yet, punished for it. I’ve also seen the true happiness that settles over a trans or non-binary child when they’re supported, accepted, and loved by their community.#ProtectTransKids #protectnonbinarykids.

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"These new policies jeopardize the very lives of trans and non-binary children.  I have seen the implosion of self-destructive behavior that stems from children being denied the ability to live as who they know they are, or worse yet, punished for it. I’ve also seen the true happiness that settles over a trans or non-binary child when they’re supported, accepted, and loved by their community.\n #ProtectTransKids #protectnonbinarykids. "}'>These new policies jeopardize the very lives of trans and non-binary children. I have seen the implosion of self-destructive behavior that stems from children being denied the ability to live as who they know they are, or worse yet, punished for it. I’ve also seen the true happiness that settles over a trans or non-binary child when they’re supported, accepted, and loved by their community.
#ProtectTransKids #protectnonbinarykids.


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Leave these kids alone

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"LGBTQIA adults are no longer social pariahs in this country, yet you choose to try and make it so. You cannot come after us so you come after the children who have no legal bearing in this, claiming that it’s for the benefit of parents, when in reality you could not care less. Reversing these policies will not only create huge inconveniences for both the parents of transgender students and the students themselves by trying to take this antiquated method of “proof” that the child is transgender, you are costing families money by forcing them to provide proof. The legal name/gender change is a weeks long process that is time sensitive and costly. The transgender child, being under the care of the parents, cannot pay for this on their own unless they have a job and even then finding work as a transgender person is incredibly difficult. What this does is put the transgender child at the mercy of their parent/guardian which can lead to domestic abuse and homelessness. Forcing a child to use a bathroom based on their genitals is not only gross, but it allows room for bullying. And as we all know, all of these things listed above eventually lead to mental health crises and suicide. These children, like everyone else, are just trying to live their lives and they can’t do that effectively when you try to take away what little rights they already have. I am a transgender adult who attended school in Prince William County, VA. We weren’t allowed to talk about this out of fear of rejection, humiliation, harassment, bullying and abuse. We had to keep quiet, seek out teachers that cared enough to hold space for us and stay in the closet out of fear. We grew up without positive representation of what being queer could look like. Without assistance. Without resources. These kids have those things, do not take them away because you choose to remain ignorant of other gender identities"}'>LGBTQIA adults are no longer social pariahs in this country, yet you choose to try and make it so. You cannot come after us so you come after the children who have no legal bearing in this, claiming that it’s for the benefit of parents, when in reality you could not care less. Reversing these policies will not only create huge inconveniences for both the parents of transgender students and the students themselves by trying to take this antiquated method of “proof” that the child is transgender, you are costing families money by forcing them to provide proof. The legal name/gender change is a weeks long process that is time sensitive and costly. The transgender child, being under the care of the parents, cannot pay for this on their own unless they have a job and even then finding work as a transgender person is incredibly difficult. What this does is put the transgender child at the mercy of their parent/guardian which can lead to domestic abuse and homelessness. Forcing a child to use a bathroom based on their genitals is not only gross, but it allows room for bullying. And as we all know, all of these things listed above eventually lead to mental health crises and suicide. These children, like everyone else, are just trying to live their lives and they can’t do that effectively when you try to take away what little rights they already have. I am a transgender adult who attended school in Prince William County, VA. We weren’t allowed to talk about this out of fear of rejection, humiliation, harassment, bullying and abuse. We had to keep quiet, seek out teachers that cared enough to hold space for us and stay in the closet out of fear. We grew up without positive representation of what being queer could look like. Without assistance. Without resources. These kids have those things, do not take them away because you choose to remain ignorant of other gender identities


Oppose

I OPPOSE the guidances proposed. As a friend of a number of trans people, these guidances are ridiculous and will lead to more pain..which is probably the point. Not using the preferred name of a student would not be acceptable for a cis kid, so why do so for trans kids? Outing kids to hostile parents when they come for help just leads those kids and their friends to not get help when they need it. Preventing trans kids from playing in their preferred sport is also isolating. Just so _much_ of these guidelines seem to be to the goal of driving trans kids to suicide, which also affects their friends and family and school community.Please reject these so-called guidances which is just bigotry and discrimination on the behalf of people who are scared of what is different.

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"I OPPOSE the guidances proposed.  As a friend of a number of trans people, these guidances are ridiculous and will lead to more pain..which is probably the point.  Not using the preferred name of a student would not be acceptable for a cis kid, so why do so for trans kids?  Outing kids to hostile parents when they come for help just leads those kids and their friends to not get help when they need it.  Preventing trans kids from playing in their preferred sport is also isolating.  Just so _much_ of these guidelines seem to be to the goal of driving trans kids to suicide, which also affects their friends and family and school community.\nPlease reject these so-called guidances which is just bigotry and discrimination on the behalf of people who are scared of what is different."}'>I OPPOSE the guidances proposed. As a friend of a number of trans people, these guidances are ridiculous and will lead to more pain..which is probably the point. Not using the preferred name of a student would not be acceptable for a cis kid, so why do so for trans kids? Outing kids to hostile parents when they come for help just leads those kids and their friends to not get help when they need it. Preventing trans kids from playing in their preferred sport is also isolating. Just so _much_ of these guidelines seem to be to the goal of driving trans kids to suicide, which also affects their friends and family and school community.
Please reject these so-called guidances which is just bigotry and discrimination on the behalf of people who are scared of what is different.


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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"I oppose the guidance and feel that this discrimination against particular students is completely unlawful and unnecessary.  As someone who is a product of Virginia public schools (and now a current school teacher), the practice suggested in this bill are disgraceful.  They have the potential to be extremely harmful as well due to the discrimination, exclusion, and mental toll that these practices could potentially cause on trans youth."}'>I oppose the guidance and feel that this discrimination against particular students is completely unlawful and unnecessary. As someone who is a product of Virginia public schools (and now a current school teacher), the practice suggested in this bill are disgraceful. They have the potential to be extremely harmful as well due to the discrimination, exclusion, and mental toll that these practices could potentially cause on trans youth.


I Oppose The Guidance

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Trans and Non-Binary children have every right to exist in their bodies, in public, exactly as they are. All children should be protected from violence, bullying and discrimination. Trans and Non-Binary children are especially vulnerable to violence, bullying and exclusion at schools. Youngkin's guidance puts children in danger in our public school system.


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<p>I strongly support this Guidance Document. It is appropriate to let parents guide their children's education. Any child should feel safe entering a restroom - keep those restrooms and locker rooms separated by birth sex. </p>


Pro-parent policies by the VA Department of Education

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As a retired school nurse in VA for 14 years I never experienced parents being denied knowledge of what was happening in the classroom.  Parents are what every child should have for love, guidance, direction regarding making decisions and being family etc.

Today is different, and VA should stand up for all parents of children in our schools.  Teach children what they need to know, reading, math, science, etc. and include parents as to what you are doing and be in contact as needed for various reasons.

Do not let government take over ever!


I OPPOSE the guidance

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"I OPPOSE the guidance. We should be doing everything we can to support children's mental health and well being, NOT create additional difficulties for those that are trying to figure out who they are and already feel different from their peers. Trans youth already have higher rates of self-harm and suicide. I am deeply concerned this policy will further increase those numbers. (When people/kids feel alone and unaccepted, they do desperate things.)"}">I OPPOSE the guidance. We should be doing everything we can to support children's mental health and well being, NOT create additional difficulties for those that are trying to figure out who they are and already feel different from their peers. Trans youth already have higher rates of self-harm and suicide. I am deeply concerned this policy will further increase those numbers. (When people/kids feel alone and unaccepted, they do desperate things.)


Transgender Policies

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The policies honor a parent's role in the care of their children during school, athletics, and other activities.


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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"As a Mom of young kids, who have not yet started to explore who they truly are I am disgusted by this. Who the heck are you to make policies like this? Who is it helping? No one. Your religious beliefs and ideals need to get the hell out of schools. Nothing about these kids are scary, risky, or dangerous! They are just being who they are and here you come as an adult to bully kids and put them in danger. Grow up, hope your ass is voted out as soon as possible"}'>As a Mom of young kids, who have not yet started to explore who they truly are I am disgusted by this. Who the heck are you to make policies like this? Who is it helping? No one. Your religious beliefs and ideals need to get the hell out of schools. Nothing about these kids are scary, risky, or dangerous! They are just being who they are and here you come as an adult to bully kids and put them in danger. Grow up, hope your ass is voted out as soon as possible


Save our children from the perverts who wrote this guidance!

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Youngkin and his fellow perverts spend way too much time thinking about children' genitals. Their plan to make our children into political pawns constitutes sex discrimination and harassment. But mostly it is immoral, disgusting, and despicable.


Oppose the proposed policy changes

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I am a parent of three kids in VA school, two of whom are transgender. My kids deserve supportive learning environments where they are affirmed in their identities. These policies, if adopted, will cause harm to children like mine. Higher suicide rates, potential violence at home by forced outing to unsupportive parents… Their blood will be on your hands.


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I oppose the governor's legislation concerning LGBTQ children.


LGBTQ Rights

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"I was a teenager in the 60's through the early 70's. Knowing I was different, (I am gay), but not being able to really identify it, was very scary. I look back and think how wonderful it would have been to have had a support system, a safe space at school and trusted people to talk with. I was good at \"acting\" the part...dating girls, going to prom, etc., throughout high school, but inside I felt anxious, nervous, and scared. Not the healthiest way to go through being a teenager. \n\nI came out to my parents when I was in college in 1978...fortunately, they were very accepting. A few friends of mine were thrown out of their homes, told they were out of the will, and asked not to come home again after coming out to their parents. Imagine that happening to a teenager. \n\nThis is a very real possibility if teachers, counselors, administrators, etc., are forced into outing any student for any reason. Someone dealing with gender identity needs to know they are in a safe place and not have to fear being outed. They have enough to deal with, without adding the fear of being outed. \n\nPutting teachers, counselors, administrators in a position of having to out a student is a burdensome responsibility. Encouraging a student to talk with their parents is reasonable, outing the student is beyond unreasonable, it is unconscionable. The only time a parent should be called is if the student is in danger. I fear that this policy will put students in danger. \n\nIn the mid 2000's I was the Gay/Straight Alliance sponsor at the high school where I taught for 30 years. It was uplifting to hear the students discuss their concerns, ways to help each other, and ways to make things safe at school. Transgender students were welcomed and not judged. \n\nMy last 3 years, I had three transgender students in my choral program. The students confided in me and trusted me. I would listen with an open mind and heart. I would encourage them to talk with their school counselor or the school psychologist, and also their parents when they were ready. It NEVER entered my mind to tell their parents...this was NOT my place unless the student was in danger. \n\nThe students in the alliance and the transgender students found a safe and welcoming space in my classroom...and many other classrooms. The students felt safe to be themselves...they did not fear being outed. They talked with their parents when THEY were ready. \n\nAt our annual state music educators conference, a transgender choral director brought their choir to perform. The director appeared as their authentic self...the love and support for the director and her students was palpable. What a joy to see the director so happy and confident and to see the students embrace their director for being a wonderful human...and that is all that matters. \n\nI was deeply moved that in my lifetime I got to witness this...not just someone being their authentic self, but witness teenagers being able to be who they are in a safe place. They were given the space to breathe and relax...not always possible at home. \n\nFurthermore...if a student wants to go by a different name, how is that harmful? Where do you draw the line? If a student has a nickname that is different from their given name, will the be disallowed? If a student prefers \"they, them\" how does that impact the teacher? If a teacher's personal/religious views get in the way of treating all students with the respect they deserve, there are plenty of private/religious schools where I'm sure they can find employment. \n\nThe point of all of this...creating a safe space for ALL students is critical to the mental health and well-being of ALL students. \n\nMr. Youngkin...you say you care about ALL students. My take away is, you only care about the students who fit into your personal ideal. \n\nShame on you and those who support this horrendous policy"}">I was a teenager in the 60's through the early 70's. Knowing I was different, (I am gay), but not being able to really identify it, was very scary. I look back and think how wonderful it would have been to have had a support system, a safe space at school and trusted people to talk with. I was good at "acting" the part...dating girls, going to prom, etc., throughout high school, but inside I felt anxious, nervous, and scared. Not the healthiest way to go through being a teenager.

I came out to my parents when I was in college in 1978...fortunately, they were very accepting. A few friends of mine were thrown out of their homes, told they were out of the will, and asked not to come home again after coming out to their parents. Imagine that happening to a teenager.

This is a very real possibility if teachers, counselors, administrators, etc., are forced into outing any student for any reason. Someone dealing with gender identity needs to know they are in a safe place and not have to fear being outed. They have enough to deal with, without adding the fear of being outed.

Putting teachers, counselors, administrators in a position of having to out a student is a burdensome responsibility. Encouraging a student to talk with their parents is reasonable, outing the student is beyond unreasonable, it is unconscionable. The only time a parent should be called is if the student is in danger. I fear that this policy will put students in danger.

In the mid 2000's I was the Gay/Straight Alliance sponsor at the high school where I taught for 30 years. It was uplifting to hear the students discuss their concerns, ways to help each other, and ways to make things safe at school. Transgender students were welcomed and not judged.

My last 3 years, I had three transgender students in my choral program. The students confided in me and trusted me. I would listen with an open mind and heart. I would encourage them to talk with their school counselor or the school psychologist, and also their parents when they were ready. It NEVER entered my mind to tell their parents...this was NOT my place unless the student was in danger.

The students in the alliance and the transgender students found a safe and welcoming space in my classroom...and many other classrooms. The students felt safe to be themselves...they did not fear being outed. They talked with their parents when THEY were ready.

At our annual state music educators conference, a transgender choral director brought their choir to perform. The director appeared as their authentic self...the love and support for the director and her students was palpable. What a joy to see the director so happy and confident and to see the students embrace their director for being a wonderful human...and that is all that matters.

I was deeply moved that in my lifetime I got to witness this...not just someone being their authentic self, but witness teenagers being able to be who they are in a safe place. They were given the space to breathe and relax...not always possible at home.

Furthermore...if a student wants to go by a different name, how is that harmful? Where do you draw the line? If a student has a nickname that is different from their given name, will the be disallowed? If a student prefers "they, them" how does that impact the teacher? If a teacher's personal/religious views get in the way of treating all students with the respect they deserve, there are plenty of private/religious schools where I'm sure they can find employment.

The point of all of this...creating a safe space for ALL students is critical to the mental health and well-being of ALL students.

Mr. Youngkin...you say you care about ALL students. My take away is, you only care about the students who fit into your personal ideal.

Shame on you and those who support this horrendous policy


Strongly Oppose

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"These policies have no basis in best practice and have been written expressly to discriminate against trans and nonbinary students. The safety and health of these students will be directly compromised by the implementation of these policies. \n\nAs a parent of a trans child who will soon be enrolled in Virginia public schools, I'm concerned for their ability to safely access education without significant mental health repercussions. I strongly oppose these policies and request that the Virginia Department of Education reject them."}">These policies have no basis in best practice and have been written expressly to discriminate against trans and nonbinary students. The safety and health of these students will be directly compromised by the implementation of these policies.

As a parent of a trans child who will soon be enrolled in Virginia public schools, I'm concerned for their ability to safely access education without significant mental health repercussions. I strongly oppose these policies and request that the Virginia Department of Education reject them.


Our Children Deserve Better

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"I have 3 teenage children, one high schooler and 2 middle schoolers.  The world is harsh enough, middle school and high school can be socially challenging enough without the added discrimination proposed by Gov. Youngkin, not to mention the trauma of being “outed” without consent which could put many LGBTQ+ at risk at home and at school.  I cannot for the life of me, understand how anyone can think this plan is a good idea."}'>I have 3 teenage children, one high schooler and 2 middle schoolers. The world is harsh enough, middle school and high school can be socially challenging enough without the added discrimination proposed by Gov. Youngkin, not to mention the trauma of being “outed” without consent which could put many LGBTQ+ at risk at home and at school. I cannot for the life of me, understand how anyone can think this plan is a good idea.


The state should not be our children's bully

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"As a trans woman who realized her womanhood later in life I often wish I had the chance to have a girl's childhood and had not spent so long \"living as a boy\" because of the expectations placed onto me. For those children who want to be able to be their true selves and have the happier childhood they deserve, there are already so many factors working against them. Bullying of all sorts is enough of a problem within our school systems and those who identify as transgender often find themselves the target of such behavior. It is bad enough to have to deal with that, but many trans kids also don't have the support of family and for these students whether school is the place they get to be themselves or not largely hinges on the behavior of the school faculty in prioritizing their safety and comfort. We do not need legislation making students' lives even harder. School should be a place of learning and socializing where students can feel safe and focus on learning and growing into young adults. At the end of the day, if someone whose parents believe them to be a girl wants to wear more stereotypically male clothing and be referred to by a male name and pronouns does it really matter? Why should the State government be so concerned with how students identify and dress when there are frequent school shootings and mental health of students is already struggling? Why make the situation worse just to uphold some outdated idea of who gets to determine gender and its expression? Instead of making life harder for students the government should be focusing on helping them have the resources they need to grow into mentally stable adults, and making sure they live long enough is a large part of that. Suicide and school shootings are much more of a threat to a students' wellbeing than their gender identity.  And legislation such as that recently proposed in Virginia is more likely to increase the death rate of schools than it is to help students in any way. The state needs to stop trying to bully trans kids and worry instead about real issues that if addressed could save, instead of jeopardize, the lives of its citizens."}">As a trans woman who realized her womanhood later in life I often wish I had the chance to have a girl's childhood and had not spent so long "living as a boy" because of the expectations placed onto me. For those children who want to be able to be their true selves and have the happier childhood they deserve, there are already so many factors working against them. Bullying of all sorts is enough of a problem within our school systems and those who identify as transgender often find themselves the target of such behavior. It is bad enough to have to deal with that, but many trans kids also don't have the support of family and for these students whether school is the place they get to be themselves or not largely hinges on the behavior of the school faculty in prioritizing their safety and comfort. We do not need legislation making students' lives even harder. School should be a place of learning and socializing where students can feel safe and focus on learning and growing into young adults. At the end of the day, if someone whose parents believe them to be a girl wants to wear more stereotypically male clothing and be referred to by a male name and pronouns does it really matter? Why should the State government be so concerned with how students identify and dress when there are frequent school shootings and mental health of students is already struggling? Why make the situation worse just to uphold some outdated idea of who gets to determine gender and its expression? Instead of making life harder for students the government should be focusing on helping them have the resources they need to grow into mentally stable adults, and making sure they live long enough is a large part of that. Suicide and school shootings are much more of a threat to a students' wellbeing than their gender identity. And legislation such as that recently proposed in Virginia is more likely to increase the death rate of schools than it is to help students in any way. The state needs to stop trying to bully trans kids and worry instead about real issues that if addressed could save, instead of jeopardize, the lives of its citizens.


School Policies

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Fully support Gov. Youngkin & the new policies


I OPPOSE the guidance

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Let people be who they are without any sort of worry about their self being and let students learn how to approach these people like they are humans not something else.


Oppose

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To stifle the rights of non-binary and trans students is fundamentally un-American. America, and subsequently Virginia, should be safe places to exist for all, including in schools and those who are children.


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Stop Harming CHILDREN!

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"Trans and non-binary kids are just kids. They need to be heard, trusted, and supported. Every young person in this country, regardless of who they love or who they are, should be able to be excited about their future. Never should they feel as though they must hide their true selves, especially in a place that should be a safe space full of mentors, role models, and adults who care about their wellbeing. \n\nThis proposed legislation is absolutely dehumanizing for these kids. Revoking gender identity protections now is not only a huge slap in the face for trans and non-binary youth, but it would be like dialing back the clock. Essentially, Governor Younkin is telling kids that the adults in their lives, and the elected officials of their state, don't believe they are who they say they are, that they don’t deserve bodily autonomy and the right to express their gender how they choose, and that no one with any authority actually cares about their mental health. \n\nThese new proposed guidelines put trans and non-binary youth in danger because banning they/them pronouns and requiring parental approval for name changes allows so many students to be deadnamed or misgendered. And what’s worse, permitting schools to out students to their parents without their permission can be catastrophic for kids who don’t have the luxury of a supportive home and family. This is not preserving parental rights, it’s stripping young people of any agency regarding their own gender identity and expression. This will have detrimental impacts on the mental health of already vulnerable youth, increasing the rates of depression, anxiety, and suicide attempts. \n\nTo all the trans and non-binary young people in Virginia, my home state, please know you are loved. There ARE adults who have your backs. And we are so proud of all the students, queer and allies, who are standing up and taking back control of your lives. Please don’t ever let someone else suppress your authenticity. It is absolutely okay to prioritize your needs over the comfort of others. Their discomfort should never be your responsibility. You deserve every opportunity to learn and grow in safe environments, and you deserve to have adults in your lives who only want to see you become the best versions of yourselves. I, for one, cannot wait to see what incredible things your generation is going to accomplish. You are our future, and you will be unstoppable. But, while you are still growing into your awesome future selves, there are many of us who will be doing everything we can to break down barriers that stand in your way. Stay beautiful, stay hopeful, stay you. You are perfect just the way you are, and if that changes, you will be perfect then too. "}">Trans and non-binary kids are just kids. They need to be heard, trusted, and supported. Every young person in this country, regardless of who they love or who they are, should be able to be excited about their future. Never should they feel as though they must hide their true selves, especially in a place that should be a safe space full of mentors, role models, and adults who care about their wellbeing.

This proposed legislation is absolutely dehumanizing for these kids. Revoking gender identity protections now is not only a huge slap in the face for trans and non-binary youth, but it would be like dialing back the clock. Essentially, Governor Younkin is telling kids that the adults in their lives, and the elected officials of their state, don't believe they are who they say they are, that they don’t deserve bodily autonomy and the right to express their gender how they choose, and that no one with any authority actually cares about their mental health.

These new proposed guidelines put trans and non-binary youth in danger because banning they/them pronouns and requiring parental approval for name changes allows so many students to be deadnamed or misgendered. And what’s worse, permitting schools to out students to their parents without their permission can be catastrophic for kids who don’t have the luxury of a supportive home and family. This is not preserving parental rights, it’s stripping young people of any agency regarding their own gender identity and expression. This will have detrimental impacts on the mental health of already vulnerable youth, increasing the rates of depression, anxiety, and suicide attempts.

To all the trans and non-binary young people in Virginia, my home state, please know you are loved. There ARE adults who have your backs. And we are so proud of all the students, queer and allies, who are standing up and taking back control of your lives. Please don’t ever let someone else suppress your authenticity. It is absolutely okay to prioritize your needs over the comfort of others. Their discomfort should never be your responsibility. You deserve every opportunity to learn and grow in safe environments, and you deserve to have adults in your lives who only want to see you become the best versions of yourselves. I, for one, cannot wait to see what incredible things your generation is going to accomplish. You are our future, and you will be unstoppable. But, while you are still growing into your awesome future selves, there are many of us who will be doing everything we can to break down barriers that stand in your way. Stay beautiful, stay hopeful, stay you. You are perfect just the way you are, and if that changes, you will be perfect then too.


I OPPOSE the guidance

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"The Virginia Department of Education has an obligation to ensure the safety and well being of all students, and especially marginalized students, like transgender and non-binary kids. I support trans kids and non-binary kids and expect the schools to keep them safe and NOT create a hostile environment for them, which will inhibit learning. As a person who was bullied through school, I can speak first hand how feeling in danger while at school negatively impacts learning and student achievement. Please support and protect non-binary and trans kids!"}'>The Virginia Department of Education has an obligation to ensure the safety and well being of all students, and especially marginalized students, like transgender and non-binary kids. I support trans kids and non-binary kids and expect the schools to keep them safe and NOT create a hostile environment for them, which will inhibit learning. As a person who was bullied through school, I can speak first hand how feeling in danger while at school negatively impacts learning and student achievement. Please support and protect non-binary and trans kids!


I OPPOSE the guidance

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I oppose this policy. It is absolutely disgusting.


I OPPOSE the guidance

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I want our schools to acknowledge and support trans and NB students. They are at increased risk and deserve safe and accepting educational environments just as cisgender students do.


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I oppose this in the strongest possible manor.


I OPPOSE the guidance

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"As someone who’s part of the LGBTQ+ community, it is important that schools do what they can to make these students feel comfortable and not ashamed of themselves. Youngkin’s new policy not only shames students for who they are, but also puts them in danger for those not fortunate enough to have supportive families. I strongly appose this policy and am pleading that the people of Virginia stand up and protect these students!"}'>As someone who’s part of the LGBTQ+ community, it is important that schools do what they can to make these students feel comfortable and not ashamed of themselves. Youngkin’s new policy not only shames students for who they are, but also puts them in danger for those not fortunate enough to have supportive families. I strongly appose this policy and am pleading that the people of Virginia stand up and protect these students!


Transgender students in VA

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<p>I agree whole heartedly agree with this documents giving the rights of handling transgender minors AFTER Talking to parents with student present.  Only parents have the right agree or disagree and if part of that decision is because of their religious beliefs so be it.  First amendment freedom of religion.  If the minor wants to attend school he should be able to do that without fear or favor BUT bathroom privileges must be in accordance with child’s biology.  </p>


I oppose Gov. Younkin's policy

Governor Younkin's policy is in direct contradiction to the evidence and to professional best practices for the safety, health, and well-being of transgender and nonbinary youth."Parents rights" is a smokescreen. This policy will have devastating effects on youth and will ENCOURAGE people (including parents) to mistreat and harm them.The World Professional Health Association Standards of Care for the Health of Transgender and Gender Diverse people provides ample evidence, as does the APA's Resolution on Gender Identity Change Effortshttps://www.tandfonline.com/doi/pdf/10.1080/26895269.2022.2100644https://www.apa.org/about/policy/resolution-gender-identity-change-efforts.pdf

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"Governor Younkin's policy is in direct contradiction to the evidence and to professional best practices for the safety, health, and well-being of transgender and nonbinary youth.\n\"Parents rights\" is a smokescreen. This policy will have devastating effects on youth and will ENCOURAGE people (including parents) to mistreat and harm them.\n\nThe World Professional Health Association Standards of Care for the Health of Transgender and Gender Diverse people provides ample evidence, as does the APA's Resolution on Gender Identity Change Efforts\n\nhttps://www.tandfonline.com/doi/pdf/10.1080/26895269.2022.2100644\n\nhttps://www.apa.org/about/policy/resolution-gender-identity-change-efforts.pdf"}">Governor Younkin's policy is in direct contradiction to the evidence and to professional best practices for the safety, health, and well-being of transgender and nonbinary youth.
"Parents rights" is a smokescreen. This policy will have devastating effects on youth and will ENCOURAGE people (including parents) to mistreat and harm them.

The World Professional Health Association Standards of Care for the Health of Transgender and Gender Diverse people provides ample evidence, as does the APA's Resolution on Gender Identity Change Efforts

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/pdf/10.1080/26895269.2022.2100644

https://www.apa.org/about/policy/resolution-gender-identity-change-efforts.pdf


Oppose

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Please help trans kids like mine-this is important to so many.


I OPPOSE the guidance


I OPPOSE the guidance

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The lack of regard for our transgender students by the current administration is repugnant. We need to welcome and celebrate all of our children/students — not marginalize them.


Keep your ideology off their identity!

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I OPPOSE the guidance. Let our children decide who they are for themselves. Keep minors identity away from politics and partisan posturing.


Oppose

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As educators our job is to support students and help them become well rounded citizens. The policies that Youngkin has proposed will be very damaging to many of our students. School should be a place where students are comfortable. Learning can not take place in an atmosphere that seems hostile to someone. Please do not let these policies go into affect.


Attack on children

The proposed anti-transgender policy is an attack on our children. LGBTQ+ students deserve the safety to not only survive, but to thrive no matter were they are, especially in our public schools. By taking away our students' ability to safely identify as LGBTQ+, we are taking away our students' rights to a safe educational setting. As a mother and a public school teacher, this legislation is heartbreaking. Right now, my son is only 2 years old. I have always imagined that when he goes to public school, he will be in a space that is loving, caring, and welcoming, no matter who he decides to be. My students trust that they can be open about who they are in my classroom. To pass this policy is to break the trust between student and teacher, which will damage student-teacher relationships, and will therefore affect classroom performance.It is a disgrace that the Governor is so closed-minded and homophobic that he is willing to not only fail our children in public schools, but to put them at risk for depression and suicide, as LGBTQ+ youth are at a higher risk than their peers. I strongly oppose the draft policy put forth by Governor Youngkin and I ask that the VDOE reject the Governor's draft policy that is attacking our LGBTQ+ youth.

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"The proposed anti-transgender policy is an attack on our children. LGBTQ+ students deserve the safety to not only survive, but to thrive no matter were they are, especially in our public schools. By taking away our students' ability to safely identify as LGBTQ+, we are taking away our students' rights to a safe educational setting. \n\nAs a mother and a public school teacher, this legislation is heartbreaking. Right now, my son is only 2 years old. I have always imagined that when he goes to public school, he will be in a space that is loving, caring, and welcoming, no matter who he decides to be. My students trust that they can be open about who they are in my classroom. To pass this policy is to break the trust between student and teacher, which will damage student-teacher relationships, and will therefore affect classroom performance.\n\nIt is a disgrace that the Governor is so closed-minded and homophobic that he is willing to not only fail our children in public schools, but to put them at risk for depression and suicide, as LGBTQ+ youth are at a higher risk than their peers. \n\nI strongly oppose the draft policy put forth by Governor Youngkin and I ask that the VDOE reject the Governor's draft policy that is attacking our LGBTQ+ youth. "}">The proposed anti-transgender policy is an attack on our children. LGBTQ+ students deserve the safety to not only survive, but to thrive no matter were they are, especially in our public schools. By taking away our students' ability to safely identify as LGBTQ+, we are taking away our students' rights to a safe educational setting.

As a mother and a public school teacher, this legislation is heartbreaking. Right now, my son is only 2 years old. I have always imagined that when he goes to public school, he will be in a space that is loving, caring, and welcoming, no matter who he decides to be. My students trust that they can be open about who they are in my classroom. To pass this policy is to break the trust between student and teacher, which will damage student-teacher relationships, and will therefore affect classroom performance.

It is a disgrace that the Governor is so closed-minded and homophobic that he is willing to not only fail our children in public schools, but to put them at risk for depression and suicide, as LGBTQ+ youth are at a higher risk than their peers.

I strongly oppose the draft policy put forth by Governor Youngkin and I ask that the VDOE reject the Governor's draft policy that is attacking our LGBTQ+ youth.


Support youth

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The youth of VA deserve our acceptance and support around their gender identities and expression. The state has no place in controlling their expression and livelihoods. These policies will add to this generations already debilitating anxiety and existential dread. They will cause harm. For what? Because of adult fragility around gender and its expansiveness? Boring.


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I oppose Youngkin's policy on transgender youth in schools.


I oppose the proposed student policy

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"For my younger sibling, having teachers and peers (in Arlington VA) accept then at a young age is the reason they are not only alive, but successful and thriving today. Teachers who used their chosen name and pronouns allowed them to feel safe, without which school would be practically impossible. \nI have also worked in Irish school systems and seen the way conservative educational practice such as denying trans identities was genuinely traumatizing and dangerous for young kids trying to live and learn in peace. I don’t want that for the kids of my hometown and home school district. "}'>For my younger sibling, having teachers and peers (in Arlington VA) accept then at a young age is the reason they are not only alive, but successful and thriving today. Teachers who used their chosen name and pronouns allowed them to feel safe, without which school would be practically impossible.
I have also worked in Irish school systems and seen the way conservative educational practice such as denying trans identities was genuinely traumatizing and dangerous for young kids trying to live and learn in peace. I don’t want that for the kids of my hometown and home school district.


Oppose

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I oppose this guidance change that encourages the abuse of LGBTQ+ youths.


Pathetic, I’m completely against these ridiculous policies

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It’s a shame our Governor wants to spend time attacking children which will probably cause irreparable harm to the children. Before he attempts to further destroy Virginia, he should probably look at a map of the U. Since he thinks Virginia is a boarder state maybe he needs to refocus his priorities and buy a map. This entire policy sickens me


I OPPOSE the guidance.

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value="{"1":2,"2":"I OPPOSE the guidance. It's not anyone else's right to out someone. You don't know what their household/family dynamics are. It puts people at risk when you “out” them. Schools are a safe place for kids to be their authentic self and feel comfortable expressing who they are in that space. Teachers may not fully be aware of a child's home situation and openly outing them to parents could lead to a more hostile home environment."}">I OPPOSE the guidance. It's not anyone else's right to out someone. You don't know what their household/family dynamics are. It puts people at risk when you “out” them. Schools are a safe place for kids to be their authentic self and feel comfortable expressing who they are in that space. Teachers may not fully be aware of a child's home situation and openly outing them to parents could lead to a more hostile home environment.


I OPPOSE the guidance

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I graduated from a Virginia Public School in 2015 and I lost a friend and fellow student to suicide that year. This student would have benefitted from trans and nonbinary inclusive school rules, and I don't want to imagine the fatal effect of these new discriminate rules going into effect. I passionately oppose this legislation.


I OPPOSE the guidance

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I strongly oppose this guidance.


Judge finds transgender teen guilty of Loudoun County bathroom sexual assaults

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Only a complete pervert would advocate to allow boys into little girls bathrooms and locker rooms.


I OPPOSE the guidance

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I oppose all anti trans & non binary policies. Please support our children!


Oppose


I oppose the guidance

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I oppose the guidance that harms our trans youth


Oppose

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Moved from Georgia to support my trans daughter so I need Virginia Department of Education (VDOE) to get their act together and support trans and non-binary students in schools. Currently in Northern Virginia and will not have the rest of Virginia acting like these messy bible belted southern states.


Oppose

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Never once has a trans or non binary kid done anything but want to be loved and accepted. This is a blatant ploy to try and scare children into conformity, and it's morally bankrupt


I OPPOSE the guidance

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please stop harassing trans youths!! lets move forwards not backward!! protect all children. inclusion is the key . No no to discrimination!!!


Oppose

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transgender people are people. I have several trans friends and they are some of the sweetest people I know, none of them deserve to be discriminated against for simply taking on a different identity then the one they were born with. Knowing who you are should not be a crime.


Legacy

Governor Youngkin, you and your political party claim to be the party of personal freedom. Our ancestors crossed the sea because the governments of Europe were plagued with religious extremism. This is what you claim to be against, yet you and your party are now standing against freedom due to your religion. On the night you were elected, my home was vandalized with anti-lgbt graffiti (as my partner and I are openly lgbt). Why did this happen? It’s because policies and attitudes of discrimination were emboldened by you. You may think you are “helping the country” or “preserving traditions” but you a merely using hate to crush the population to your twisted view of morality. You say you are a Christian, yet unlike Christ you exclude and divide people.Drop this at once, it is the antithesis of everything you claim to stand for.

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"Governor Youngkin, you and your political party claim to be the party of personal freedom. Our ancestors crossed the sea because the governments of Europe were plagued with religious extremism. This is what you claim to be against, yet you and your party are now standing against freedom due to your religion. \nOn the night you were elected, my home was vandalized with anti-lgbt graffiti (as my partner and I are openly lgbt). Why did this happen? It’s because policies and attitudes of discrimination were emboldened by you. You may think you are “helping the country” or “preserving traditions” but you a merely using hate to crush the population to your twisted view of morality. \nYou say you are a Christian, yet unlike Christ you exclude and divide people.\nDrop this at once, it is the antithesis of everything you claim to stand for."}'>Governor Youngkin, you and your political party claim to be the party of personal freedom. Our ancestors crossed the sea because the governments of Europe were plagued with religious extremism. This is what you claim to be against, yet you and your party are now standing against freedom due to your religion.
On the night you were elected, my home was vandalized with anti-lgbt graffiti (as my partner and I are openly lgbt). Why did this happen? It’s because policies and attitudes of discrimination were emboldened by you. You may think you are “helping the country” or “preserving traditions” but you a merely using hate to crush the population to your twisted view of morality.
You say you are a Christian, yet unlike Christ you exclude and divide people.
Drop this at once, it is the antithesis of everything you claim to stand for.


Protect and support trans kids

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One of our neighbors is trans. She is in 11th grade. A friend has a non-binary 10th grader. These kids didn’t choose to be how they are, and they have a right to fully be themselves as they grow up so that they can have safe and fulfilling lives and jobs. Virginia needs to continue to protect all of our kids.


I OPPOSE the guidance

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As a parent and as a teacher, I oppose this guidance.


I OPPOSE the guidance

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These proposals are an attack on the trans youth of the state and will lead to more mental health challenges , self harm and violence against the kids. This is purely a political decision to appease a base of voters who are hateful. For shame!


Stop hurting children

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"I don’t understand why we have decided to replace the love, attention, and deeply personal choice a parent makes with their child—with the wisdom of one man’s interpretation of the world. Let parents choose how their child should be identified, in consultation with medical professionals.  We should be providing resources to help parents make informed choices to nurture their child.  Trans children have incredibly high rates of suicide.  Who is this policy helping???"}'>I don’t understand why we have decided to replace the love, attention, and deeply personal choice a parent makes with their child—with the wisdom of one man’s interpretation of the world. Let parents choose how their child should be identified, in consultation with medical professionals. We should be providing resources to help parents make informed choices to nurture their child. Trans children have incredibly high rates of suicide. Who is this policy helping???


Support for Gov. Youngkin's revisions of the previous transgender policy

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I support Governor Youngkin's policy revisions that ensure parental rights in decisions that affect their children's lives, including notification from school officials. Also, I agree that no one be compelled to use certain pronouns or other speech contrary  to to their free speech and religious beliefs as protected by the constitution. Finally, Governor Youngkin is right to say that transgender policies - especially those involving use of bathrooms and locker rooms- should be left to local school officials and not state officials.


Support our youths

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"A policy that is based on religious beliefs not shared by all is meant to only oppress and harm children. The school should be a safe environment for all children. Not for those that only meet your political/religious views. Your policy is creating hostility based on discrimination, lack of knowledge and fear. You are the governor that is not for equality for all. \n\nFrom a parent, a constituent and a voter that will not forgot your attempt to harm those we are meant to protect.  Reverse the policy. "}'>A policy that is based on religious beliefs not shared by all is meant to only oppress and harm children. The school should be a safe environment for all children. Not for those that only meet your political/religious views. Your policy is creating hostility based on discrimination, lack of knowledge and fear. You are the governor that is not for equality for all.

From a parent, a constituent and a voter that will not forgot your attempt to harm those we are meant to protect. Reverse the policy.


Oppose

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I oppose this legislation. I think it’s harmful to children.


Model Policies for the Treatment of Transgender Students in Virginia’s Public Schools

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I fully support this policy. Teachers should never have the right to overrule the parents. There are avenues to report abuse and neglect but teachers cannot decide they can make parenting decision better than a parent. As well, I taught at the elementary level for years without ever once needing to talk about sexuality or gender with students. I supported students with two mothers without ever needing to discuss the details of these relationships with other students. When I left the field we were at the point that  I was able to tell Johnny he could not kiss Susie but I would be disciplined if I told Johnny he could not kiss Bobby, when they should be a no kissing policy for everyone. We are sexualizing our children and it is disgusting that we are taking away their innocence.


Trans Kids Deserve Their Childhood

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<span data-sheets-userformat='{"2":769,"3":{"1":0},"11":4,"12":0}' data-sheets-value='{"1":2,"2":"I grew up in Glen Allen, VA & went to Henrico county public schools. Not once in my time there did I learn about one trans person or that trans people existed. If I had, maybe I would have come out before 22.  Now society has taught trans kids about their existence without the need of traditional education. The education system which already sets trans kids back by not teaching them anything about themselves should not then bully trans youth. I missed my childhood and had panic attacks throughout it because I could never be my true self. If the VDOE creates policy around trans youth it should be to ensure trans-inclusive education is taught, not to forcibly out them in home situations in which they may not be ready. I ran away from Virginia. I thought it had gotten better. This is sad to see & based in cis supremacy & fear."}'>I grew up in Glen Allen, VA & went to Henrico county public schools. Not once in my time there did I learn about one trans person or that trans people existed. If I had, maybe I would have come out before 22. Now society has taught trans kids about their existence without the need of traditional education. The education system which already sets trans kids back by not teaching them anything about themselves should not then bully trans youth. I missed my childhood and had panic attacks throughout it because I could never be my true self. If the VDOE creates policy around trans youth it should be to ensure trans-inclusive education is taught, not to forcibly out them in home situations in which they may not be ready. I ran away from Virginia. I thought it had gotten better. This is sad to see & based in cis supremacy & fear.